I have a very small penis and know for certain that many women have told me it’s too small to satisfy them so I’ve had to get good at using my tongue.
A girlfriend of mine totally got off on just the look of a big dick - soft or hard. My more recent ex came almost as soon as the other much better endowed guy entered her ( it was our first cuck experience ( I was the tiny dick cuck) She hadnt been with another guy for the first 6 months or so of our relationship and all her previous lovers were much bigger than me - she was very excited about being fucked by a big cock and she said she almost came before he even penetrated her )
A big (make that a huge) cock that fills you up and on some really deep thrusts even hurts a little as it reaches your cervix can be extremely enjoyable. But most guys aren't like that and especially with a woman of, ahem, mature age, we're already stretched out a bit through childbirth and use. I've always said that size doesn't matter and that it's how it's used that is important, and I stand by that. But I'd be lieing if I said that seeing an oversize cock didn't excite me. It's probably a primitive feeling but there's something rather beautiful about oversize male genitalia.
They're always nice to look at. Having them in your mouth or ass (or pussy)? Your experiences may vary and I agree with DivorcedLisa in that size doesn't matter - it's how it's used that does. Bigger might seem like it's better until you feel it trying to literally tear you a new asshole...
I am well acquainted wth both of those feelings! Totally agree on all of those, though my 'stretchiness' is purely from use. I began my sex life with a nice size dick and have actually never had one smaller than about 7 inches. But being Bi I do know that a girl doesn't need massive penetration to enjoy sex. I can't say that a big one feels 'better' except that the 2 biggest that I've had are super pleasurable. I refer to the words that I bolded at the top of this comment.
I'm 6.5 inches long with a girth of 6.5 inches. My ex. thought I was too big. My wife says she LOVES my size, craves and is willing to beg for it.
Don't know why I wrote that, it's misleading. A big one does feel better to me. But that does not mean that I can't really enjoy dicks that are not as big,
My gf says her lover, longer and thinner. Followed by me slightly shorter and fatter is the best combination.
After reading these recent posts. I see how greedy my woman is she wanted both thicker and longer. But she was happy with most.
My wife definitely likes bigger ones, and she's had at least two guys much bigger than I am. She agrees with what others have said about other factors (like personality and technique) being more important, but all things being equal, she'd go for the bigger dick, with thickness being more important than length. One thing a little different for her is that she's never felt pain or discomfort from fucking a guy with a big dick, which is somewhat surprising since she is very petite. I'm always surprised (and turned on) when I watch her use one of her huge dildos, which she says is about the same size as an old boyfriend.