One thing leads to Another

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by topper, Nov 4, 2024.

  1. topper

    topper Member

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    If you started out as a regular horny married guy, what brought you around to the Bi side?
    My wife is the instigator in my experience and opened my eyes to many things. Our various hobbies and work enviorment set the stage. Over several decades . Attitudes and desires change because it is in our nature to explore and discover the various pleasures of life. I would still like to make love to a majority of the women I meet, but that won't happen. The avenue of sucking cock was on the next street, so I took a walk around the block and discovered it was "No Harm, No Fould and a few Great Orgasms".
    What brought you around the block?
     
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  2. topper

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    Nobody? Everyone here was always into sucking cock? I spent my youth just trying to get mine sucked, never giving anything gay or bi a thought. Now its a desire that won't leave my mind and I look forward to be able to enjoy this pleasure with our friend. No Fear, No Shame, just good times enjoyed in our senior years..When did you get into it?
     
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  3. John1971

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    Accidentally watched a gay video when I was a teenager, and was seriously turned on. (It was mislabled as a pro wrestling match I had been hunting, but was actually two guys in a bedroom 69ing and fucking)
     
  4. KDaddy23

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    I was on the bi side of things way before I even thought about getting married; not everyone gets introduced to bisexuality the way you did but, yep, some guys do.
     
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  5. Abqfunbiguy

    Abqfunbiguy Married Bi-next-door

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    I think I always have been bi. Even as a kid, I was fascinated by male and female bodies. As a teenager, all my experience was with girls. But I was still fascinated by cock. However, my first experience wasn't until my college roommate and I got drunk, watched some porn and ultimately wound up stroking each other's cocks. He freaked out afterwards and it was never broached again. I was thrilled! I thought about it all the time. A year later I ventured into an ABS and wound up letting another guy give me head in one of the booths. I was shocked and amazed by the experience. But I also knew I couldn't wait to experience it again. I returned there several times over a couple of months and enjoyed getting bjs. I also wondered....all the time ....what it felt like to give one. So, one night, after a guy had just finished sucking me to completion...I suprised myself and asked if he would like me to return the favor. He seemed suprised, as well, but agreed. I can remember every detail to this day, some 36 yrs later. From the pounding of my heart, to the fumbling of my fingers with his belt and undoing his fly, to pulling down his underwear and revealing his hard cock, to thet first taste, the warmth and smoothnes, feeling him get harder in my mouth and the taste of his precum. I guess yi could definitely say it was a seminal experience for me. I was unbelievably thrilled. I tried to remember every technique I had ever experienced on my self and apply it to him. It was awesome! I loved it. From his moans and the way he was holding my head, I could tell he did too. So, now that I think about it, one thing does lead to another.
     
  6. Oldernow

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    I always had curious thoughts and when I was drunk it would get more intense. This is my whole life, I would look on Craigslist and think about it from time to time later in life. A year ago I discovered Sniffies I would look feel ashamed then not go back but this year when I went a year with no sex I went back to Sniffies and looked for a good 3 months before I hooked up with my first guy and I was hooked. Still no sex with wife but been with 4 guys and love it
     
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  7. topper

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    Thanks . My wife had told me that she would be ok with getting a discrete bj with another guy in the same situation. Get it out of my system and move on. No strings, no hastle, everybody is happy with the situation. Hope you enjoy Does your wife approve , know or even care?
     
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  8. Oldernow

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    Oh no she could never find out. I do everything discreetly. This helps with not having sex and me getting mad at her. I think she thinks I just watch porn, which I do and did while we didn’t have sex. But I needed more to be touched feel something. Didn’t want to have an affair with a woman too complicated guys easy your both there for one thing and it’s understood. No attachment just sex and fun
     
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  9. topper

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    "So true"
     
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  10. LowHangers

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    I was the very same way during my first marriage when I discovered the many joys of mutual oral sex with other married men. Discreetly hooking up in locations to satisfy each other's needs to then go about our separate ways. It was all so very thrilling and exciting for me. Browsing Craigs List and seeing so many sexy cocks that were available as many were just a 20-minute drive away. After agreeing to get together at a certain location my cock would become very hard knowing I'm about to be sucking on another man's cock as well as enjoying his mouth sucking on mine. Mutual oral sex with other sexually deprived married men was my solution to my problem and I don't regret ever doing what I did being my wife had no interest in doing so for me.
     
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  11. Jumper58

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    I’ve been interested in getting a bj from a guy but I have never followed up on it. If I did I would like to my wife’s support in my decision. We also had a great sex life and experimented with different kinks
     
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  12. KDaddy23

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    I really don't know how many times I've been in the situation where I'm talking to a guy, we wind up talking about sexual things - usually whether our wives are decent in bed, past conquests, whether we like blonds, brunettes, redheads, all that good stuff and the conversation turns to things M2M and... we wind up with each other's dick in our respective mouths and... how did this happen and more so when we started out talking about anything other than this? At some point in the conversation, I can almost feel where this might wind up - sometimes. I've had this happen and I didn't have a clue where this was going until the guy asked if I was into getting sucked off by a guy and, sure, why the hell not - and more so when I've spent the last hour (or more) learning all kinds of shit about him, how he thinks, stuff like that and... he's not bad at sucking dick.
     
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  13. LowHangers

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    I too have had conversations with guys at a pub I would frequent after work that many times led to discussing our sex lives with our wives. The subject of blowjobs would then be discussed, and it was common to hear guys telling me that they stopped sucking their cock and they missed getting them and we ready to allow another guy to suck their cock. My regular response to them was always, a mouth is a mouth and feels better than jerking yourself off all the time. I sucked a lot of cock in the parking lot of that pub which led to some really good friendships that evolved into mutual cock sucking friendships.
     

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