I love when guys are vocal during sex. I love hearing them moan, shout, rumble and purr. I had to learn to be quiet out of necessity. My boyfriend has occasionally expressed that he wishes I'd let loose and be vocal, but I really can't. Which is weird because I'm a loud mouth when I'm talking and especially when I'm having fun, or am angry. Everyone is different and that's okay. As long as your both enjoying it. Besides there are other cues like facial expression and body movements.
You obviously see sex as something personal and private, so you don't want everyone within 100 yard radius to know what is going on. Some years ago, we had a couple who at 3am in the morning would chase around the house, garden, up trees and even over the wall into our garden on one occasion. On that night, even our dog joined in. Amazingly, being a Rottweiler they did not seem to care. He just thought that it was fun. The funny part was that during the day they were a quiet professional couple who would not say boo to a goose.
They chased each other naked into your garden? Lol. Considering that a lot of my fun time was done in cars when i was younger, I really didn't wanna risk getting busted by the cops.
Not quite naked, but not far off. They also both had knee high boots on. The funny part was our dog trying to join in. Living just a few doors away, they knew that he was friendly. Just thinking back, all this was more than 35 years ago. LOL
I love being noisy during sex, and I love dirty talk even more! I had a GF years ago tell me “just let yourself go”, meaning don’t hold back and enjoy it to the fullest. That had a big impact on me and the things that I enjoy as part of sex. Unfortunately my wife is quiet, which is mostly due to having kids and not wanting them to hear anything. When they’re gone for a sleepover for a night or a weekend, then she gets a little more vocal.
I find I am still kind of shy when it comes to admitting what I want from my partner... but I can't help making noise when I get what I want. lol
THat would be fantastic ... All the women I've been with in my past were too cowardly to make noise, Afraid someone would hear. I never understood why you wouldn't want others to hear how much passion you're feeling. If it feels good, Let the world know, and when you orgasm Scream at the top of your lungs :HOLY FUCK I'M CUMMING!" Be Loud, Be Proud
I'm on the quiet side - but i like hearing some moaning. Sometimes I make some comments or talk a bit, especially when changing position
This reminds me of a time that my wife and I were staying with my aunt and uncle while waiting for the closing on our newly purchased home. They were pastor and wife, so we had to be very careful of everything that we said and did so as not to offend. One day they both left (very rare occasion) to go shopping about 25 miles away, so we hopped to it in our room. Our room bordered the living room in their very tiny house. Well, my wife was very vocal and had been quiet for much too long for her (and my own) liking. We knew that it was safe to let loose since they were gone and we did. All of our pent up sexual frustrations came out that afternoon and very loudly. I told her what to do and she instructed me how much deeper, faster, harder she wanted to be f’d. When we finished we got dressed and opened our bedroom door and there they were sitting about six feet away on the sofa. Not a word was spoken in either direction. I think if it had been me that came home to this that I may have turned around and taken a long drive, not sat outside the other party’s door.
I'm pretty damn quiet, in all things really. I'm a tall bastard but even my walking is so quiet, I scare the shit out of my wife when I enter a room and she turns around. Regarding sex, I've always been quiet and probably has to do with being younger and doing things teenagers do at that age, figuring things out in your room.... And my parents bedroom was on the other side of the wall. It became customary. But I enjoy sex, despite being mostly quiet. The other reason could also be I'm too focused on what I'm feeling and what's going on around me that I keep it all in my head and bottled up rather than letting things out vocally.
We would have as well, but these two probably prayed for us for weeks afterward. They had probably never heard the f word used so many times in their lifetime, let alone in the course of one amorous encounter.