Has illness affected your choices for sexual satisfaction?

Weather it's your health or your Wifes, has illness dictated changes to your sex life? There are many different scenarios that offer solutions . What changes or adjustments have been made to acomodate the situation?

 

My wife has numerous heath issues. Being what they are, she is now unable to,perform sexually. I too have heath issues which affects my stamina and my meds cause ED. But with the Cialis helps the erections. Unfortunately I have had to use toys or the palm sisters for pleasure.

 

It has slowed me down. Everything works, just not quite as regular as before.
One needs to explore other options more than before.

 

In a word…. YES. It sucks

 

Yes, indeed, health issues have slowed things down a bit for me and my wife. I've had some bowel issues so we've held off any anal play for a bit. My wife and I both miss it. I am hopeful we can get back to it soon. I'm feeling a bit more confident that we will, especially in those moments when I feel "normal" again.

It's no fun having to hold off on anything we enjoy.

 

My wife also has significant issues, hers as a result of the menopausal realm. Despite all the lotions, potions, pills, hormones, injections, etc., it’s has left her vagina a super sensitive, oft bleeding, sore and uncomfortable mess. Sex is much too difficult from a pain and bleeding perspective and often ends in too much discomfort and negative energy. This is excruciating all around, for her physically and emotionally and also for our relationship as we used to have a very active and healthy sex life

 

I’m sorry to hear that and it suck’s I hope that your wife gets better soon

 

They dont get better w/o hormones, which has its own issues.

Which leads me into one of my Dads jokes.

How do you make a hormone? Dont pay her. Sorry, hes been gone a while.

 

Yeah that’s true I’m sorry to hear that and I understand what you are going through!

 

Yes. Lost my prostate after cancer. All functions fortunately work well, but I don't shoot cum anymore. Since that happened I started dreaming of me getting big cum showers. Freud would call it compensation lol. After a few years I decided to go for it and sucked my first cock. Had done several since.

 

I am bi curious, to me I don’t think I would have a problem sucking dick, it just the irrational phobia about swallowing cum. How did you get past that?

 

I often tried to catch my own cum in my mouth, but in the second between orgasm and shot that "irrational phobia" made me shoot it somewhere else. When I suck a guy and did not have an orgasm yet, the lust is bigger than the phobia. I love to get his cum in or over me. And I swallow it. I think I'll keep swallowing as long as I did not came myself. Defenitely should try it with more than 1 man

 

I tried once to cum into a small cup after I jerked off with the intention to try to tast it. Well to be honest after I came, the post “high” of cumming I threw it away. I know it’s an irrational thing imposed by society.