Regrets hearing the details of your wive's past sex?

Mate, you should discuss with her to be the one in her ass.

 

Having known my wife since college I am aware of her history and she is aware of mine. Also I know my fwb for 30 years and my fb for 20. Their experiences and even knowing many of their partners turns me on all the time. I respect some have different opinions and feelings about this but for me knowing their mouths were on other cocks or other cocks were in them is a major turn on

 

While I believe there is a little bit of a fear factor for anyone, in terms of maybe finding some wild things out you wouldn’t have your spouse pegged for, I think communication around past sex is fine as long as both are 100% honest and both are 100% engaged in discussing. Definitely no regrets in chatting with my wife about, and it was those discussions that ended up leading to a discovery of something we both had. While my wife and I have only been married ten years (she’s 57 and I’m 51 and we are both white), it brings me back to when we were first dating. We sort of got into this discussion around previous partners very loosely, but she kept coming back to if I’d been with an Asian girl or with a Latino girl or a black girl etc. I answered honestly but she was hesitant to divulge her side for some reason, so the conversation went elsewhere as I didn’t want to be pushy. Fast forward to some time shortly after we got married, we had just finished a session and she circled back to past lovers, this time she wanted to know specifics around just the black girls I’d been with, dated or just hookups etc., how many, how many times, body types, things we did, the whole thing. I was honest as descriptive sex chat is very enthralling to me. She listened and was turned on by all I had to say as she had this very sexy and almost devilish look on her face as she continued to tweak her nipples the whole time. During my explanations I made a marked point of telling her that I’ve always had an interracial fetish and intense attraction to black folks, to which she didn’t say anything or bat an eye, just smiled. When I finished my ramble I figured I’d attempt it again, and reciprocate the question and asked if she was with any black men, and honestly I was thinking not given that I knew her last several long term relationship boyfriends, and none of them were black. Well, was I WRONG! She took a few deep breaths, and then began to divulge that she too has a VERY strong attraction to black men. For the 20 years prior to us getting together, she was collecting black fuck buddies. So while it appeared to her family and friends she was happily engaged in her relationships and leading a normal life, she was feeding her fetish of riding and blowing big black cock almost weekly. She said it became like an addiction, and despite trying to engage with her partners at home, she wasn’t being near satisfied so this fuelled it more. To this I was completely shocked as it’s just not something I thought she would be capable of doing. After her very lengthy and descriptive summary of her dealings with a LOT of black guys, we were both so turned on, we engaged in round two. Up till recently when the menopause wagon has ruined my wife’s sex life completely, we had grown our sex lives and happily included others. To ensure we were both happy, and to be forthwith with no sneaking on the side, we’d have black men over where she was able to suck, fuck and carry out all her kinks right in front of me, which in the end was the best of both worlds as I have the interracial desire bad and loved seeing her blow and ride those bbc’s. So, for me it was great to discuss and have no regrets.

 

I love hearing about my wife's past lovers (5). I really get turned on when she compares my dick to theirs. I love hearing what they did in bed. Unfortunately, she has no interest in hearing about my past lovers.

 

I guess I am just Somewhat of a different duck regarding this subject. I have been all over the place regarding my LTRs’ sexual pasts. When I met my first real girlfriend, we were both virgins, and decided to maintain that status for the time being. so we had a lot of oral sex. Her BJ’s were amazing. For some reason one night I asked her if she had ever done that before? She reluctantly said that she had with her previous BF. WHAT? WHY? he had been pressuring her for sex, so she gave him BJs Instead. It felt like a punch in the gut.
FF A few years, my girlfriend was living with me. I knew she had been around the block a few times. She was pretty open about talking about her past. at first really bothered me, but then she told me about one experience that really turned me on. She and her BFF We’re in a hotel room having sex with their respective boyfriends. During the festivities, someone said SWITCH.! So they did. I found it a huge turn on knowing that she had had Sex with two guys back to back. That got me thinking (for the first time) about having a MFM with her. we role-played about it, but she didn’t think she could do it real time.
When I first started dating my ex-wife, she was simultaneously “dating” two other guys. Yeah, it bothered me, but I eventually won the battle and she moved in with me. Over time, those memories started turning me on, to the point of me suggesting her becoming a hotwife! at first, she was reluctant, but when the right guy came along, she went for it…. a frequent 6 months affair. we both loved it. Reclamation sex was out of this world.
FF again, I’m at my current wife online (I lived 1000 miles away). She was a divorced mother of two young-uns, and on the outside, she seemed quite the proper conservative woman. we talked and texted for over a month, and I decided that I needed to meet her in the flesh. so I decided to fly down and meet her. The sex, that night was probably the best ever. First on the living room couch, and then again in her bed. Who she had been with previous to me, did not matter. like with most new couples,

 

My wife and I have both been married before so we both have had other partners. I don’t want names from her but would love to hear of some of her exploits. She has said a couple of things but really doesn’t open up. She has dropped comments accidentily, which lead me to believe she is holding a lot back. Love to convince her to open up

 

Her stories of her girl/girl play in college --- H O T