How long before you get the urge to be with a man again? (For Bi Men)

Hi Guys,

I'm a bisexual man and although I hardly ever feel like being with a woman when I'm in a long term relationship with a man, I do start getting the urge to be with a man when I'm in a relationship with a woman.

I just wanted to ask if any other bisexual men have this issue. If so, how long into your relationship with a woman do these feelings arise? And when they do, how do you handle them. Do you act out on them, or just bury them within you? or something else. Also, what kind of urges are they - sexual, emotional or both?

For me, it gets very frustrating. I do love the woman I'm with at the time but it's just not on the same level as it could be with a man, especially sexually (and mostly at times emotionally).

On a side-note, I'm not out to anyone in my life. I guess that's why it's easier being with a woman. I'm approaching 30 and I've always been scared to come out as I know that most of my my family and friends would not accept it, whilst the rest would frown upon it.

I look forward to hearing about your experiences on this matter.

 

The early days of my bisexuality ran in cycles of three months to a year of strictly women or strictly men, not necessarily the same man or woman for the cycle. I never knew what would change the cycle. Maybe I had a strong desire to suck a cock t a time when women just weren't doing it for me. Or I might suddenly crave the hugging, kissing and caressing of a woman.

After prostate cancer surgery women found me less appealing when they learned I couldn't perform penetrative sex. So most of my relations the last several years have been with men. Most men wanting a blowjob don't care about the cocksucker's cock.

 

Can completely relate to this! I'm not out and in a relationship with a woman, and lately I've been having a massive desire to be with a guy again. I've never been in a relationship with a guy so don't know if it would work the other way around

 

Similar here too. No girlfriends or even ex wife ever knew about it. I've never been in a serious relationship with a guy, only play buds.
I go about three weeks max before i need my fix again. I love women but need some man sex now and then.
Im thinking about breaching the subject with the new girlfriend. Why not, right? Might end up having much more fun.

 

I kept my desires for sucking cock hidden for 28 years in my first marriage. When I met my present wife almost six years ago I told her I had a number of suck buds and she was turned on by it. We've had a shared male lover for over two years now and the three of us have so much fun together. Go ahead and bring up the subject with her and see how she reacts.

 

every few days........

simon

 

I’ve never been with another man but sissy’s got me so turned on to for last yr but afraid to go forward but I can’t stop whatching porn and them masterbating and jerking off comstantly,why?

 

I love sissies, and being a sissy too!! Something about being controlled and used by a horny man is such a turnon!!!

 

Hey dear you a sissy? If so chat me and help me figure out what it is I’m infatuated with I love a chick with a dick and want to go animal with one ASAP?

 

I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that we know how to please a man so well, as we know what feels good to us. One of the best encounters I ever had, and the most amazing blowjob ever, was with a Ladyboy in Hong Kong. She was absolutely stunning, 100% passable with an amazing ass!!

 

"One of the best encounters I ever had, and the most amazing blowjob ever, was with a Ladyboy..."
I could go for that!

 

I am in the same boat. Had my surgery a couple of years ago and this has intensified my urge.

 

Splain

 

it was almost 25 years after my SB Back in high school/college days. Had not thought about it much. I love women, and especially my current wife. we went through a phase of a few MFMs. Then we went through an anal phase, with the deal that if I got her ass, she got mine! She was more open-minded back then. I got her ass many times, and bought her a strap on! Her eyes lit up when she opened the package. I loved watching her walk into the bedroom, wearing it. Her “cock“ swaying in front of her as she walked toward me. She would “force“ me to suck it……” I bet a real cock would taste better”. All I could do was groan. Then when she started pegging me, “ I bet a real cock would feel better”! A real big groan from me. She was all in when I suggested finding a bi guy for a MMF. Unfortunately, we never found the right guy.
She pegged me for a few years, but has been sexless for the last several. Why do women do that?

 

That about covers it for me, too.

 

I wonder why women do that too?

 

I always want to be with a man . I love being with women too but I also love being with men and the urge is always there to be with a man .

 

Title to this thread is:
How long before you get the urge to be with a man again?
As soon as I've finished a good hour-long session with a guy and we're both sexually satisfied and depart ways, I get the urge to be with another man on my drive home.

 

Often, both in real life and fantasies.

 

At least once each day.