I'm with a girl who I adore and who really turns me on but I am not able to cum when we make love. I have kept it up for 2+ hours until we both get physically exausted but I can't cum inside of her. If she gives head I can cum but we both enjoy sex more. She's a small girl and I'm quite a big guy so there is pleanty of contact (infact we had trouble the first time getting it to fit, and I did get off that time) but now it's like I go kinda numb and she gets all the pleasure....I'm too young to be experiencing this! and it's not that I go limp, like I said I can keep it up hours on end. I'm a sex god that can't get off -- it's torture! Has anyone else around my age experienced this kind of thing?
I don't know whether to congratulate you or feel sad for you... When I was 18 I could last about 40 minutes, but have sex 5 or 6 times a day. Now I can last an hour or so but when it's done, so am I...
It's not about being young... I can't finish from sex either -- it's just not stimulating enough for me. I can easily finish from head, or from handjobs, or whatever, but sex is way overrated. It is fun, sure, ok, but it isn't a good way to get off I don't think. I personally cannot finish when I'm physically exerting myself that much, it takes away the pleasure. I mean if I tried jerking off while standing up, or jerking off while walking around the room, I would never, ever be able to get off. I have to be relaxed. So perhaps girl-on-top could work but so far had no luck with that either, because I didn't find it to be all that stimulating. I don't get what's so great about sex really, seems really overrated to me. I'd rather get head.
That's what I'm worried about with my friend and I. He's a 'big boy' and really tall and I'm tiny, and the first time he showed it to me I was thinking, "How the hell is that thing gonna fit!?"
Jon, thanks for the advice. Unfortunatelly we have tried about every position we can think of without any success. I haven't had this problem with past girls so I dunno what the deal is...She and I are both VERY sexual (wild animal sex type people lol), it's frusterating when the gratification isn't mutual after we've been going at it for hours. HippieFlowerGirl, if your friend makes you sore I'd recommend masturbating with something that's comfortable and gradually using larger objects. That's what my girl did until we could have sex comfortably. Thanks for the replys!
thats kinda how my boyfriend is. He gets pleasure from sex and likes it and everything but he takes FOREVER.its not just sex either, he cant cum from head or anything for a long time. Oh yeah and hes only 18 too
Im coming to the conclusion that your mind while having sex is thinking of other things instead of sex, it has happend to me a couple times when i was in the movie theater and my girlfriend was jerking me off and i was rock hard...untill this bad ass part came on the big screen and i started to get into the movie, while doing this i also realized i started to go limp.
...You didn't read what I said fully... my problem isn't going limp because of thinking about other stuff. We can be having mindless crazy animals sex where we feel each other with such intense passion (might I add that it's the best sex I've ever had) that we steam up the neighbors windows. But no cum.
