I am 33 and I have been in a relationship for 14 years with a wonderful woman and I was on a work trip and I was out one night and I meet a guy in a bar and I thought it was all friendly and we had a few drinks and he started kissing me and one thing led to another and we ended up back at the hotel room and I spent the rest of the work trip been his bottom and I have realised I am jot straight i am 100% gay so I have told my partner of 14 years and she was really understanding she sed she is happy and hopes I find someone to settle down with
It's a bit of a rug pull for her, but it also sounds like this is the only way. It nice that she's been understanding about this. Hopefully you can separate in an amicable way. So you were never physically attracted to her at all?