What attracts you most about a woman and a man example a fat ass on a woman strong large hands on a man
Woman: Nice big tits (36C to 44D) and a nice ass when on all fours for a deep doggie style fucking. Some women have a flatter ass, but in the doggie position it's sexy as hell. Man: I need an 8-10" cock to suck on before taking it up the ass if he is willing to give it to me.
As a man, I'm hard wired to look at a woman's tits. But the size doesn't matter too much. Anything you can't get into your mouth is a waste. Except for tity fucks. For men, obviously it's their dick. As long as it's at least 3 inches it's okay. Longer can penetrate deeper into my ass but as long as it hits my prostate it's good.
A woman's breasts, a C size or more preferred, at least enough to have cleavage? And the hourglass curve of her waist and hips to her thighs! With men, a nice, circumcized head of his cock, proportional to the shaft.
Shapes and forms and skin. On a woman that could be breasts (but not too big, more than a handful is a waste) and mainly ass (a bit round, not too flat, not too big), venus mound, but also the hips, thighs, the length of the legs, from neck to shoulder... On a man it's mostly smaller guys, not too muscular, smooth or shaven skin, a cock that for some reason is much like mine (in length and girth but also uncut, shaven). Not sure why I prefer a cock that looks like mine.
A woman's breasts, especially if C or more in size; her ass, but not fat and with zero hips like a boy's fuckable ass; and her face, especially eyes. With a man, his cock used to be my favourite feature, for decades, but once I finally gave in to my gay anal desires, and went crazy on this boy's ass with my tongue and cock with a hunger like a starving man, it's now a man's asshole that is my favourite feature, especially if it's got that perfect puckered look, and pink, with his cut cock a close second. Right now I also desire everything about the man I'm making love with, body and soul, but asshole and then cock at the top of the list.
Honestly, what’s between their ears is most important. A good attitude and kind demeanor goes a long way. However in both men and women I prefer height and weight proportionate. Either do not need to be thin by any means, just not morbidly obese. I prefer a little thick with women, I like some cushion.