How do you reciprocate after you've cum?

I actually prefer the cock I'm sucking on, ejaculates first. But...if I cum first, I'll continue with what I'm doing and either let him cum in my mouth, or just do a facial. I'm a non-swallower, so his load just runs down my cheeks and wherever...it all cleans up, right?

 

Yesterday I was with a guy, we were doing everything but he couldn’t get his dick in me I was rubbing against his body and came, at first I thought should I leave but I still wanted more so we kept going I kept sucking him but he ended it by saying he couldn’t cum. So I guess I found I can keep going even though I came

 

Always reciprocated. The best solution is 69.

 

For the first 25 years, as soon as I came I'd lose all interest, but out of a sense of obligation I would still suck the guy to completion. But since I've gotten more in touch with the gay side of myself and really loving it, with it becoming stronger and stronger, now when I cum first, my desire for him is still there and I happily continue our intimacy. If we really have a strong sexual connection, my cock gets a second wind and I end up cumming a second time. But it also depends upon the guy.

 

Yes - obligation. You're not supposed to have obligatory sex but if we agree that we're going to suck each other off - and you get me off first - then I am obliged to keep my end of the bargain; otherwise, my word means nothing. So, you literally suck it up, grin and bear it, and keep on sucking his dick until he cums and, who knows - maybe by the time that happens, you're getting hard again. I don't think it's really obligation if you gave your word that you'd suck him off and it never looks good to get sucked off and then... you vanish into thin air, even if you understand why guys blow and go.

Like I said, I have never, ever wanted it to be known that I'm a lousy cocksucker or that I can't hang just because I busted a nut first. I don't have a whole lot of ego but what ego I do have cannot live with this so, yeah, you suck me off first, I'm not going anywhere until I suck you off and as promised.

 

I don't think I've ever made an explicit promise to suck a guy off, let alone to completion. We're just sucking each other's cocks. But still, after cumming, out of respect I used to feel like I should reciprocate. But nowadays, I WANT to reciprocate after my orgasm out of strong desire for him and his cock, and his cum. God, do I ever love cum now that I feel so gay.

 

Depending on the guy and how we feel, either I will suck him until he cums or let him fuck me until he cums. Either way, I'm going to satisfy him.

 

If I am alone and masturbating when I cum I’m done, at least for awhile. If there is another person or two, naked bodies I tend to stay in the zone.

 

It does clean up. I am not a swallower either. My wife never swallowed, but she would allow me to cum in her mouth. She would let the cum fall out of her mouth, while sucking it while I was cumming , which is where I learned. Facials for my wife were not allowed , unless accidental. She thought it was degrading to blast onto a womans face,(old school porn). She never had a problem making me cum on my own face or in my mouth. She liked doing that. As far as my friend, he swallows, but I let it fall out of my mouth. When we aren't in a rush, I will take the time to enjoy everything about it.

 

I think my partner's orgasm is the most erotic thing ever; of course I want to get them off, whether I already have or not (it's also just good manners).

 

That has always been one of my biggest concerns and worries. I know that

I've always wondered that myself. My orgasms have always been extreme, exceptionally enjoyable and completely drain me physically. So, once I cum and I enter my "refractory" period I lose all interest in sex. I pretty much collapse because I am completely spent. So I have always been concerned that if someone sucked my cock and I came that I wouldn't be able to reciprocate. I'm sure they would feel cheated as I would if I sucked their cock until they came and then they didn't reciprocate.

My solution would be 69 where we would work out signals to alert the other to slow down or speed up. Maybe that way we could work it so that we both cum as close to simultaneously as possible.

Of course this is different when I'm with a woman. I always want her to cum at least a couple times before I do.

 

@Pgbadboy Do you ever make a woman cum after you have? If not, try that first. It's your wish for her to feel pleasure, no matter what you feel, that's important then. The same will then be with a man.

 

Yes, but only after an hour or two.

 

Make sure they do or cuddle kind of depends on person and situation

 

I like to give, but not always to receive. On a Grindr hookup a couple months ago I took a nice load in my ass, then drove to another man's house and sucked him off. Both loads were immense, and when I got home I unloaded my own. i do like being a bottom and doing what my lovers want.

That was a hot night. i felt like such a slut letting two men cum in me in such a short time. i still fantasize about being that dirty little slut bitch...

 

I agree, one evening I orally serviced five men and gave my ass up to three of them. Having taken nine loads of cum between my mouth and my ass was definitely my most enjoyable, slutty moments in my life and I enjoyed every minute of those three hours. It was a dream come true moment for sure.

 

I've not been in this situation with a guy before but I don't think I would lose all interest.When masturbating I sometimes cum in my hand and wait a little and then eat my cum. With a woman I can go down on her to get her to orgasm. Watching porn I can cum and still enjoy seeing what I like, especially a hard cock. I would definitely try and make him orgasm.

 

I have been with men who loose interest after they cum and honestly it is a bit of a letdown, I mean if I’ve just sucked him to completion I’m still horny and am going to want to cum also.

 

The guys I've been with just wanting a blowjob (not mutually sucking) I'd stroke myself while sucking on them and cum on their cock, so I'd have two loads of cum to eat. They seemed to enjoy watching me cum all over their cock to go down and lick it all up before them provided me with their load of cum.

 

I don't ever lose interest, and I have yet to be with a guy who has lost interest. I've had a few surprise blowjobs, though. From guys who I thought would leave after they came. Pleasant little surprise.