What would it take to justify seeing prostitute?

The typical argument I hear against seeing a prostitute is that it's only temporary pleasure, and that you'll still feel lonely once it's over! Well yeah, but isn't that the expectation anyone would have? Does anyone go to a prostitute expecting a relationship?! So how is this any different to something like comfort eating... which probably 80% of he population do? And if the advice is not to see prostitutes, then does that mean it's okay to just keep watching porn instead? because that's also shunned? Now fair enough if you're going to argue that they might get addicted, or that they might get an STD, but those aren't usually the arguments I hear.

What if somebody said to themselves "I'll approach X number of women per week, and if nothing happens by the end of the Spring I'll allow myself to see a prostitute"? Is that an okay compromise for a man who's sex won't be half what it used to in 10 years? After all, when you hear trainers give advice to people trying to lose weight they'll typically say something like "it's okay to have a treat once a week". Some people can't go a few days without eating junk food but men are expected go for years without sex?

For the people who advice not to see a prostitute, they would instead suggest things like hitting the gym, dress well, form a social circle and make money, and then women will come your way! If someone is actually putting a reasonable amount of effort into those things and not having any success for years, where does it become justifiable to consider just paying for it as you do with most other things you want? Besides, any time I see such advice posted the only thing I can think is "oh well if I do that then I have to sacrifice doing the other thing that's also improving my life".

One thing I remember seeing posted as advice to this dilemma before was "get your life in order first and then go about getting a woman". The problem with that, is where do you draw the line between when your life is and isn't in order? One is never going to feel like their life is in order enough, because whatever is in order we take for granted. You think the person being told that hasn't ever set themselves such a goal before?

Some people also think it's inappropriate to proposition strangers. I'd still be a virgin if I didn't do that. So if you don't have a social circle - which takes long time to build - you're kinda fucked. So some therefore say join a club/activity that you like, that is likely to have lots of women present. This one always makes me laugh. The first thing that crosses my mind is that the person is NOT going to forget that the real reason they're there is because they want to fuck someone. And if you go along to several 1 hour long classes of yoga over a 2 month period, and don't date/fuck one of them, you're going to feel like an idiot for all the wasted time. And in anticipation of feeling like an idiot for wasting your time (if you don't try something on one of them) you'll probably try and force something that's not meant to be and have an extremely awkward interaction. Any hobbies I have are certainly not the sort of thing that women would be into.

 

I say a lot of ridiculous and stupid things, but I'd never with a straight face attempt to man-splain to someone how it's far nobler to spend sixteen hours a day cleaning bathrooms and making beds at the Holiday Inn before rushing to your second shift at McDonalds than it is to fuck for money.
Sex has been commodified and monetized since the dawn of time. Sex work is work, and sex workers should be treated with at least the courtesy and respect we routinely extend to our fellow peasants.

 

Not saying it is good thing, but prostituion is as old as civilisation.Sex is a indusrty and it will always will be

Because humans found away around the (sex)drive to just procreate(masturbation, ect)..............difference between humans and animals(braindevolepment)?

Again not saying it is a good thing, but humans are also just animals(hormons/ect)

Mzzls

 

There's no justification necessary. If someone wants transactional sex with another, we'll, fill yours boots! (Well, you know what I mean lol)

I knew friends who would go to bed with me because, they said, 'what are friends for'?! Mutual pleasure.

I knew other male friends whose female friends had a similar belief.

Little difference, imv, between that and someone I don't know, agreeing to have sex in exchange for money.

One situation is friends being friends doing sex in exchange for discretion/privacy.
The other is a stranger saying yes, in exchange for payment of some kind.

Similar thing but different places.

 

Let me just say, that I have never been, nor do I see myself at any point feel the need to shell out cash for sex. Nor do I subscribe to those OnlyFans type sites. It just isn't me.

 

My reason against prostitution is for those that do it not out of pleasure but obligation due to financial stressors, limited information, drug use and forced prostitution for entry to other countries like human trafficking, I have also heard some that enjoy their sex work which is good for them. Im also against people who view sex work as being able to cheat on their partners which can be a stereotype but also try for some. Its a grey topic to discuss and ill leave it at that.

 

Being horny and having money.

 

After being in the military and stationed in the Far East, I saw enough of that "industry" for more than a lifetime.
I pass on that.

 

In the Netherlands some men get a government payment so they can pay a prostitute for sex. Its for their physical and mental well-being. I'm not sure they still do it. It's considered a health issue especially for lonely old men.

 

Definitely NOT something you'd get on Disability in the United States.

 

So so so many gals out there looking for someone to provide comfort, loyalty, security and Love.

Men have all of the advantages in the dating gane.

 

As far as i know they just do that with heavy mentally/physically disabeld to relieve stress...........and with our current goverment i doubt it

Me personally.........never bin to one.........not gay or asexual but very little male hormons and just no focus for woman/relations/sex/bs...........to busy



Workaholic first class

Mzzls

 

In the immortal lyrics of The Eagles song "Desperado" "you only want the ones that you can't get".

 

Never even considered paying for sex via contract with a stranger but I must admit I have been giving it the occassional ponderance over the last year. I have a fetish fantasy itch I would like to scratch and I may have to go down this route to try it.
I have a rampant SPH ( small penis humiliation) fetish and want a brand new experience to explore in that regard. I have viewed plenty of porn featuring trans persons who have a larger cock than mine. What I would like is probably very difficult to arrange otherwise and very costly to pay for if I could find the 'professional' solution. I fantasize about a woman watching as I am outmanned and fucked by a trans. ( also new territory as I have never had my ass penetrated by anything more than a womans finger) I suspect this will remain just a fantasy and all fantasies dont necessarily translate into a pleasurable reality but I can still get off on imagining it.