I'm in south-central MO, and new to the site. I came to the gay side late in life, some years after being widowed, and my interest in men has been a surprise to me. I don't know where it came from, or why it did, but I no longer question it, or let it bother me. The first thing I learned is that I am 100% bottom--I was lucky with my first encounter, who was a total top, and very good with breaking me in before moving away after a few visits. I've been careful while looking around, as I see it's a bit of a minefield out there, and it's taken awhile to find my way.
