I would often hear " if your so horny why don't you just jerk off." Jerking off was for teens, so I took it to another level with toys, would self suck or anything that would try to get a rise out of her. She always enjoyed a good show and I always aimed to please.
Many things my cuckqueen bisexual wife have seen having sex with 40 different women. Even give them massage too.
I kneel on the bed naked and masturbate while she plays with my nipples. When I cum, I catch it all in my hand and eat it in front of her. (Sometimes she catches and feeds me!)
When I am in the mood and she isn't if I need it bad enough, then I grab my vibrating cockring and anal plug combo add another slightly smaller cock ring at the base just in front of the other, and I hand the remote to my wife. She plays with the settings for both the anal vibration and the plenum area. She just watches me moan and start slowly jerking off as slowly as I can take it. She just grins and watches me while I take care of myself. Then I clean up and we go to sleep. Couples aren't always on the same page sexually, but it is nice to know that you can still work together even during those times.
My wife has watched me jerk off, masturbate with dildos and has watched me give and receive bjs and more. She has always been a voyeur.
Note to 'Carol' I would love for you to watch me wanking my baby dick while telling me how pathetic it is.
I fucked myself with a dildo while she masturbated with a vibrator once. Thats about as kinky as we get. I mentioned wanting to stick my biggest dildo to the wall and ride it while she rubbed me all over and played with herself. She won't do it.
One time I masturbated in front of a GF. But it was "for" her to watch. So I leaned into that and made it extra sexy as she got turned on and said she wanted to masturbate too by prohibiting her from touching herself until I was done and demanding that she had to just watch until I finished. I've masturbated to some of the more fetish-serving porn I like (specifically pee stuff and fake step-family videos) in front of girlfriends. But the hands down kinkiest thing I've done in front of girlfriends is pee on myself.
A few things, though not the kinkiest It was more like making them do something at the same time After having a woman refrain from touching me I touched her many places with my erect penis. She was very turned on especially when she saw the precum when I reached her cleavage. A married woman wanting to give me a handjob watched me taking her hand in mine and do the motions before I let her do it on her own. Same woman watched me press her breasts together and use them for my pleasure. She had hers before and after.
I would do male Kegel exercises while she played with herself, she liked watching it jump up and down.