does it really feel that much better w/ no condom

No need for me…only when asked to!

 

Yeah; it feels better without a condom. It also feels pretty good to be able to reassure your lover that they are safe with you, and they can trust you to protect their health and well-being.
Oh yeah; a bassinet by the bedside with a screaming infant in it is a definite buzzkill.

 

It does feel better, but not so much that I find wearing a condom to be a buzzkill. Heck I’ll wear one now and then just to change things up, lol.

Where going raw dog enhances sex is less in the physical sensation itself and more in the intimacy and connection of direct contact down there. It’s a really amazing connection to have with someone.

 

Still useful thread, despite the OP being so much older she may have teenagers by now.

Anyhoo, she raised a valid point. She (or he) wanted to try sex without condom and she was reticent about it.
She was worried that he would like it so much he would always want to do it without condom.

That concern doesn't just apply to sex without condom but any sexual activity.
I mean, years back, a friend of mine wanted to know what anal sex was like.
Well, her BF wanted to do it and she wasn't sure.
Long story short, she asked me to do it and if she liked it, she might let her BF do it. If she didn't like it, she wouldn't.
Her concern was giving him a treat and then, afterwards, not letting him would be like denial or teasing and potentially frustrating for him such that it may strain their relationship.
Valid point, I think.

She never did let him have anal sex with her, well, not before their relationship actually ended.
She and I did it a few times and whilst not initially, she did begin to enjoy it after a few times.
She was going to let him do it but then things went awry for them. (nothing to do with me btw).

She enjoyed it enough for her to want to call me up saying she wanted it right then.
That said, the point of my post is to let those who wonder, know, that by letting a guy do something which you don't like, it probably won't be just the once that he wants it.
He may even expect it if he's been permitted once to do it.
Depends on the guy.

Important suggestion is to try it with a friend. Use a condom. If you like it then, well and good. (whatever act it may be).
If not, though, at least you'll know and you won't have introduced something unpleasant into your relationship, which could lead to a breakup.

 

In the heat of the moment and with the right condom, it's barely noticeable to me. When I pull all the way out..even for a minute...it IS noticeable both in feel and visually. In a good mouth, I'm fine with it but I hate watching my covered cock in a nice mouth. As I'm releasing...it doesn't matter unless the intention is to spray. In general though, I prefer skin to skin.

 

My GOD sex feels so much better without a condom. I hate the feeling of one on my cock. Almost feel like I can't breath. It doesn't feel good for her either. Wen you aren't afraid of pregnancy or STDs, bareback is the ONLY way.

 

This day and age, there are so many vaccinations and medications that have really lessened the risk of contracting STDs. So I can proudly say I’ve never had a condom in me! I should try one for just the feel someday, but it’s the cum exploding in any of my three holes that I have to have!

 

My ex and I never used condoms. I can’t cum with them. I pulled out most of the time. A few times just couldn’t. Felt too good. So yes. It feels incredibly better without one.

 

I know that this thread has been ongoing for a while, but…
The brief answer is: YES, sex without condoms feels infinitely better than when you have to use them. If the woman can take the pill for birth control, that’s the way to go.
When my wife and I started dating, I used condoms for a little while - then when we became more comfortable with each other, she began using the pill and we ditched the condoms and never looked back. Cumming inside her without condoms is so much more intense and enjoyable when there’s nothing holding you back.
Even with other past GF’s, I used condoms for a little while then went bareback as they started using the pill. Nothing feels as good as that skin-on-skin contact. Come to think of it, I had a GF in college that I used condoms with, but right when her periods were over, she would have a couple of days when she’d let me go bareback and cum inside of her, before she started ovulating again. That was my first experience with condomless sex.
However if you’re ever in doubt, just use the condom for peace of mind. It’s better than an STD or unplanned pregnancy.

 

Nah, you’re not missing anything. I wouldn't bother with condoms unless you absolutely needed to. Just keep doing what you’re doing.

 

19 pages in, I'm a bit late to the party. Oh well. To the original question, yes there is a significant difference between using a condom and not.

The easiest way to explain it is that a large % of sensation down there is removed due to the condom. Marketing of condoms will talk about how thin they are or how they're like not wearing anything at all, but it's all crap and they all feel the same. There is a layer of tight synthetic material between your penis and the inside of a vagina. Condoms being tight helps ensure there is a reduction in leakage, but this also means lack of movement.

Without a condom, the penis moves and the skin flexes along with those movements, which in turn works with the movements and sensations of the vigania and fluids (vagina and precum) body temperature is also more detected. With a condom, many of these overlapping sensations are either dulled or gone completely, because the nerves of the penis are covered in a layer of material and that material is on so tight, there's little flex of the skin/penis inside. Body temperature increase down there does occur but it's a slower response.

The best way I could describe sex with a condom on is "Glorified Exercise." It is difficult to reach orgasm with a condom on. I have done so many times in the past when using a condom, but it's a lot more work trying to reach that point when most of your penis is numbed down and you're relying more on everything around your penis to produce sensations.

All of my partners, past and present, have all been on birth control, with a few occasions they weren't for one reason or another and had to use condoms to avoid pregnancy. But while on BC, no condoms were needed, no unexpected pregnancy happened, and my partners & I certainly enjoy sex without condoms more than with, especially once the fluids start flowing in there.

 

100% agreed. Our experience is the same.

 

It sure feels better without an STD or unwanted pregnancy.

 

True, but if you're in a relationship with someone you trust, know both of you are clean, and there's another form of BC involved, one shouldn't have to worry about STDs or pregnancy.

Outside of that, yes, condoms are a wise choice, even if you barely feel anything.

 

Vetting is important before proceeding!!

 

Yeah, and it's probably why I did it without one, despite it being the first (and last) time.. I had them right by my bed, but she didn't even mention them, and I thought "Who gives a shit". Something like this happened to me over 20 years ago - didn't have the heart to say "I rather wear one" implying she was dirty.

 

I’m 63 and wife and fb are 62, fwb is 53. No condoms. However other partners and friends are younger generally late 30s and up. I don’t encounter anyone younger but I always use condoms. If they don’t want them I will not encounter

 

Ive only had sex with condoms a few times. I lasted longer because the feeling is deadened, Depending on hiw its made. Ive even been sucked off with a condom on. Seriously not a fan. Jiftips work well. Trouble is i dont have sex anymore or id try them.

 

Sex without a condom?! Oh my god! That's when you can really feel the teeth in the girl's vagina as it bites down on your penis and nearly castrates you...
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(OK, I posted this so that if any of you are trying to discourage your kids from having sex, then you can show them this post----but don't show them this part or the part below this!)

Sex without a condom?! Man it's the greatest feeling! Kids don't know what amazing ecstasy they are missing out on by waiting. And by not using a condom! damn!

 

Jiftips rock. All of the cock and vagina awesome feeling, none of the sperm. Id put my boys onto these if i had any of age.