I love noise. I always make sure I communicate my enjoyment in some way. I love hearing my gf moan and I love watching her face.
I'm not loud but I love making noise and I especially love the sounds that my fuckbuddies make when I'm pleasing them. For me it's a big part of great fucking and sucking, even those little grunts that can barely be heard sometimes. Doesn't have to be loud, every little bit of noise can be great.
I dated a girl years ago that was very loud! In fact, one morning after a loud night of sex, I found note taped to the front door of our apartment. It read: “although we do appreciate the lesson in sex last night, we don’t appreciate the noise and hours in which you did it in!” It was a little awkward seeing them around the building after that.
My partner's literally a screamer, and often laughs maniacally as she cums (and she's multi-orgasmic, so she goes on for a while). The whole condo knows when she's getting off. I refer to it as her 'singing', and wouldn't have her stifle it for all the tea in China. Sing to me again your song of love, my dear.
My wife is quiet at home. I think it's a leftover instinct from not wanting to wake up the kids when they were young. In a hotel or vacation rental she's a different woman, much louder, yelling and swearing.
Little subtle noises are a turn on for me. Little moans or squeaks let me know I’m doing a good job and you are enjoying it. Loud noises can be a little much.
I was typically pretty quiet in bed until I began seeing this older married couple. I think it was a combination of things that led me to being louder including his size but they both just make me feel comfortable and that I can completely let my guard down and be myself. It turns out I am quite loud when I am comfortable lol
When I was in grad school, I lived in a brownstone in NYC. It was a very solid building and I rarely heard any of my neighbors. However, the neighbor above wasn't a moaner...she was a screamer. It sounded like she was getting pounded and loving it. Well, I'd hear that and come to attention and my GF would be like "Here we go!" Honestly, I don't care if my partner make a lot of noise or no noise. Moaning like "Oh, **** me harder" just rings fake in my mind (not saying for everyone). Her moaning when I am giving her pleasure is awesome. A little noise helps me dial in the oral (location and pace). Once she's climaxed (almost always first), I only need to nut. However, fake oral encouragement might actually retard my ejaculation. Like when you're pounding away and she's pretending to be climaxing. That's a turn off for me. Probably read too much "Cosmo" when I was a pre-teen.
I know most guys like noise but I'm just naturally a quiet person. I mean, I could fake making loud noises if asked.