Where did I wrote there is no kissing? Oc my wife kisses her lover, with tongue and all, that's not my "rule" at all. Like you say, I've seen her lover cum in her mouth, her ass and her pussy many times the last 3 years, I have even seen her lover piss in her mouth and I have seen her putting her finger up his ass to make him cum faster, but I draw the line in no kissing? Oc not... I love seeing my wife getting aroused by tongue kissing her lover, something she always do when her lover comes to visit us at out home...
So, Romper.... Do you fully understand this, cuz I don't and it did surprise me when I was first confronted with it and for thinking the hubby being a nutso at best....lol? But, that's just me I guess. I mean how can a kiss be so intimate, with people doing so in public, all the time and for being very common in movies and TV shows, regardless of it's rating.
I seen my bisexual wife with male and female too. Everything From cunniligus to blow another dick toys play and many things ofcourse kissing too it's exciting moments to watch her play with her lovers .
As a married cuckold, I've seen my wife kiss, make out, stroke and suck her "boyfriend's" cock. It was really hot and turned me on. We attempted a threesome afterwards, but he made it really awkward and that was the end of that. LOL
Many husbands see the kiss as the most intimate act a couple can do. It goes beyond strictly sex, and into the realm of true feelings for the other person. Sex is OK, but true feelings with a 3rd party is not. At least I think that's the way its viewed by the husbands. I've never shared a partner, so I don't have first hand experience.
Two things in one here.... I once got it on with a girl who was as sexually open as anyone I've met, whether I got it on with them or not. Quite like a guys view on sex; it was natural and something to do the instant it was desired. And almost gynaecological exploration of each others bodes was what she wanted in terms of openness. At the beginning I was the one who said about no kissing on the facial lips so neither of us would get carried away. Her response was along the lines of, "great, I can spend more time sucking your cock". She loved that and was very adept at it. No facial kissing, later, seemed odd because we kissed licked and fingered everywhere else, sometimes without foreplay or she had warmed herself up before we met or whilst I was driving us to a naughty place outside for very non-vanilla sex. She asked me if I would do a 3sum. I said probably but which did she mean, mmf or ffm. Both was the response and she would find the guy and I should find the woman. She added that there would be no kissing in the 3sum. From my time with her, I understand the no-kissing rule mentioned above. As it turned out, we didn't have a 3sum but (thinking I had got past the concern of falling for her or becoming too emotional if I kissed her), I said one time we were in the countryside that I'd like to kiss her. We kissed. God, she was good. She was able to strip without my being aware, without interrupting our kiss and it was one of those kisses where our faces were as hard pushed together as if we were holding each others head. We weren't. I was feeling her boobs and she was stripping herself. She went frantic with passion and ripped of my clothes. We had the best sex so far! In the open, totally naked, totally uninhibited and neither of us cared if we were seen. And we were. She let herself go like never before and it was like a lovely roller-coaster. I've not experienced two people so spent afterwards but we were so drained we just lay there on the woodland floor, in the open, panting and sweating like crazy. Eventually we went home, I dropped her off at hers and I went back to mine. It needed to be that way. (her parent's house). Next day we met and she was relatively freezing cold. Still talking freely but wouldn't kiss. She didn't want to get her kit off, which was a first. Usually that was the first thing to happen when we met. Previously we would meet three meets a day about 4 days a week. First thing in the morning, lunchtime on her break and all evening. I wondered why the change and she said she just didn't want to do it any more. That was that, done. A couple of years later I saw her in a strip mall. We chatted, she was still as friendly as the previous normal. I asked what I had done wrong that made her decide to stop playing and she said I had done nothing wrong - quite the opposite - and she was very sorry. She said she had liked that I didn't want to kiss her because she also had the concern that she would fall for me. She hadn't realized what would actually happen and she was sad that we were both now missing out on some real good times. We had been friends too, not just FBs. When I kissed her that day in the countryside, she said all her emotions flowed out - exploded - and blew her mind. My joke that we had invented a new type of blow job didn't really work. She said the kiss must have released all of her emotions from those months of pleasure and suddenly, she was aroused like never before (with anyone) and she couldn't stop what we were doing. She didn't want us to stop. She did things and allowed things to happen that day, which she had never allowed before or since and whilst she was pleased it was the two of us doing it, it was her lack of self-control that scared her. I asked why she didn't choose to stop kissing after that day and for us to be as we were beforehand and she said because it was the best and most animalistic sex she had ever known and by banning kissing, she wouldn't feel so good again. That was given as her reason for not having any more boyfriends. Every sexual thing we could think of doing, we did it that day. (I've thought since of a couple more that she could do to me lol). She said she hasn't had such good sex since and only does it for the orgasm; usually on her own or with a girlfriend because with a guy it's like an anti-climax. So I joked that she should kiss me 'now' and let herself go just once more or we could go to mine first and then kiss. She said she was already feeling like she did when we would meet and wanted sex with me as she often wished since we had last seen each other. I could see she was aroused. Her leg was shaking (like a petulant child or one needing the toilet), her chest skin was flushed, her pupils were wide open, she was speaking softly, which always turned me on, and, also, she was holding my fingertips with hers. She was too scared to let herself go, like that, again. So no kissing that time. I don't fully understand even to this day, but to think of a kiss as just one thing, with people doing so in public, all the time and for being very common in movies and TV shows (They're not real life y'know), would be wrong. Lips are full of nerve endings directly connected to our sensual side in both men and women.
Romper, I agree with you, but there are conditions that can mitigate "sharing a kiss". When my wife and I were in an MFM threesome with a very close male friend, back in 1985, our friend would not only pet her and fuck her repeatedly, he'd also kiss her... a lot! At first I thought that was going to be a relational issue, but my wife put my concerns to rest by letting me know that he was one of the worst kissers she'd ever experienced. She then when on to inform me that on the only two really good kissers she'd ever been with were her boyfriend during her senior year in high school... and me! The soothed my nerves right away!
Not only have I seen her, but several others have also seen her. She never minded putting on a show. .