Is it weird to fantasize about an ex?

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  1. Captain Scarlet

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    That is true as one tends to remember the good times and not the ones the led to the going of separate ways
     
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  2. John1971

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    It depends on why the ex is an ex......
     
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  3. jimandjan

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    I have been with the same woman over 50 years. So no ex wife! A few ex lovers who I think of from time to time. I would have to guess all couples would had some good times together. Or would have never married in the first place. So I would not consider it weird. With bad ending, I could see why some might want to forget, as soon as possible.
     
  4. DaveTheBiGuy

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    I don't think it's odd.
    My wife often fantasizes and talks about her boyfriend (who also happens to be her highschool sweetheart), even while we're having sex. It turns us both on immensely, and I often think about how good it must feel to have his BIG cock in her mouth and pussy. To be honest, I wouldn't mind a taste of it too
     
  5. RIJACO

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    So true!

    My ex-wife became a drug addict and after 3 rounds of detox and in-patient treatment, I had to pull the plug.

    EVERYTHING else was fantastic with her - including the best sex of my life.
     
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  6. Harry7272

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    No, just because you are not with them for what ever reason and if the sex was good then its fine....i am fantasizing about a particular one that love me to watch her masturbate before i touched her
     
  7. regina73

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    not at all
     
  8. MojoToto

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    I fantasize regularily about numerous exes in a variety of sexual scenarios. My main go to in that regard is fantasizing about them being fucked by well endowed guys. I have a tiny penis and a rampant SPH fetish which is a major source of arousal for me.
     
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  9. FriendlyCock

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    I fantasize about fucking my ex up the ass. After we separated she said she would have done it because ir was naughty, but she thought my cock was too big. Go on, open wide, it'll fit, honest
     
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  10. MojoToto

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    I know for certain I got to fuck some women's asses because my tiny penis didnt frighten them into not experimenting.
     
  11. Curiouscouple2469

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    I fantasize about a number of ex’s from time to time. I have even returned to the scene of the crime for another go round with a few.

    Actually love another romp for old time sake. it’s always satisfying knowing they are also missing it…
     
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  12. Tonynewyork6969

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    I often fantasize and think about various partners and experiences I have been fortunate to have over the years. Recently I reconnected with my high school love after about 40 years through a mutual friend by total accident and coincidence. We have been chatting and texting and are planning to meet for dinner and an overnight next month. We dated as I went to college and then broke up as I met my now wife the beautiful woman known as the blow job queen in college. She met her husband around the same time, had kids but he sadly passed away a few years ago. He was a really nice guy and I feel really bad as she is now living with a man she met at a bereavement group. We are both 63 and he is 75 but because of medical issues they have not had relations. Our chats and texts have been quite racy of late and she is looking forward to the reconnect and some physical activity. She understands my situation but while there is a deep love between us we know that any physical activity will be just that and I’ll report back when we do meet.
     
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  13. topper

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    It isn't weird if the sex was good. Who wants to revisit bad sex? Nobody
     
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  14. FriendlyCock

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    I often fantasize about getting her pregnant. She turned from 'thanks for the wet patch', not interested, fear of getting pregnant unplanned to, I want it as much as you can give me. She fucked hard for 6 weeks intil the pregnancy eas confirmed. She dounched herself out with something so she had a better chance of having a girl, (we had a boy), then I'd spend the evening up her as much as i could. She lie there on her back, legs open, trying to keep the sperm from running out. That was horny to watch, so Id get a hard on and get up her some more. We were at an afternoon barbecue with friends and we left early so i could give the boys a movie to watch while I'd give her the dick all evening. Doggie fashion was so horny, seeing my cock shaft and her pussy lips working together. After the pregnancy was confirmed, back to cool runnings, no fear of sperm but shed got what she wanted.
     
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  15. RaceCarBob

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    No im sure people have did
     
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  16. Tonynewyork6969

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    Met the ex from 40 years ago and it was fantastic. A wonderful dinner and spent the night in a beautiful hotel. I’m 5’9 and she is 4’10 still hot shaved pussy that she loved eaten. She blew me and swallowed. Round two after more eating was primarily missionary and once again delicious.
     
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  17. FriendlyCock

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    I recall the goud times when i was giving it to her regularly and she grunted and bucked, and i relive the experiences
     
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  18. SantaCruzRob

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    When it comes to weird, I probably will like it. I tend to think and fantasize outside the box.

    I have looked up a couple of ex girlfriends, haven’t contacted any they seemed settled and content. Had they been single,,,:p
     
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  19. wayneG99

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    I don't think it's weird at all especially if you had some great experiences. Your exes are an ex for a reason though. Some of the crazier ones in bed were also crazier outside of bed, too.

    Once in blue moon I might think about something I did with an ex, but I tend to fantasize mostly about my current gf. A lot of times I might be watching porn and it makes me think of things I've done with her.
     
  20. Tonynewyork6969

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    In furtherance of my previous post my ex wants to meet again. We will do so! Something about that tiny hot body and her personality is still a turn on. Looking forward to it
     
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