Bi men if you had a chance to do it all over would you still went to your bi side ?

If there had been the internet when I was young I would have discovered my sexual attraction to men much earlier. I have always been curious but too shy as a teen or young man to act on my desires. I fantasized a lot about men but kept it in my head. I forced myself to remain straight and finally got married. Today I would consider myself a married closeted homosexual.
If I had been able to fully explore my bisexual side - chatting online with like minded men for example - I am convinced this wouod have pushed me over the other side.
I would most likely have met a man and become his lover. After that I would never have looked back. I would be a married (or divorced) homosexual man.
Would it have been better than what I have now. Not so sure. Different for sure. More exciting sexually for sure but possible not more satisfying overall. Sex is important but is only a small portion of our life. Getting along well with your life partner is the most important. If sex is lacking or a bit dull but you found a true friend, this is a relatively small price to pay.
Life is about choices. I choose to share my life with a woman. I could have made the choice to share it with a man. We only live once. This is the reason I don’t want to betray her. She chose to spend her life with me. I can’t trade her in like I would with an old car. Neither of us can go back and chose another life.

 

Yes..... I am happy being the way I am. I do feel fortunate to have gotten away with what I have though. In my teens I only went with guys. I had my first BF at 14 and when he left to go to uni I was very promiscuous. To come through the madness unscathed was very lucky. My poor mum put up with a lot.

 

I’ve always known I was Bi since very young. I had ‘fumbles’ with girls and boys but fucked girls long before I first had anal with a guy. Now 64 and proudly Bi but not out to everyone. My wife knows and is ok with it but doesn’t want to see it - so I guess that rules out any chance of a MMF. She is post menopausal now so losing interest in sex so I look elsewhere with some degree of success.

 

My two cousin were my first sexual partnere. Because of a bad experience, I stopped being with boys for a number of years. After I got my license and started looking for guys again. If I could do it again, I wouldn't let the catholic guilt and shame get in my way. I would embrace who I am and truly enjoy it fully.

 

Now I sit here thinking what am I? bi, gay, desperate or just stupid.[/QUOTE]

Definitely NOT stupid! I consider myself, opportunistic. Gotta make hay when the sun is shinning, eh? For moi, it's all about busting a nut!

 

My first thought: "sure. Even earlier". I now had my first experience with a man when I was already 60. But then I thought about how great that feeling was, of that first shot filling my mouth. That feeling of getting older and leaving all restrictions set by myself and my environment behind. Maybe I would not have enjoyed it so much if I had been bi all my life. But to give a clear answer: yes.

 

Why Not? If the right situation presented itself, which it did.

 

Would definitely have started at least 10 years earlier, late 20s early 30s. Any earlier and I don't think I would have been ready for it.

 

I would not get rid of it. If I could could have excepted it earlier in life and experienced and explored more of myself that’s the only thing I would change

 

Definitely. Sex in itself is amazing, special and necessary. Enjoying it with men and women is such an awesome and magical thing. I wouldn’t want to miss out on the pleasures and experiences I was lucky enough to have.

 

I may have actually "turned to the dark side" a lot earlier in life. The reason that I say that is because I missed out in all the m/m sexual exploration and experimentation during childhood and puberty. If I could/would have engaged in those activities I may have found that I liked it and spent my entire life being bi, instead of being straight until my older years. I definitely would have had a much larger selection of potential sexual partners!!!!