Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

My gf knows about every one of my kinks, but I have a couple of friends that we talk about kinks & interests. I don't always share everything with them though.

One friend I met at work and many years ago and one day he told me that he was into feet and I said, me, too. Over time we shared more...well mostly him since I felt a little guarded about talking about these things with someone that worked at the same company. We became good friends over time. We even went to a place to get footjobs. He ended up getting into the local bdsm scene, so he would talk about getting pegged and cucked, etc. I can pretty much talk to him about anything.

 

I had a unique ( at the time) experience when a couple from my social circle confided in me that they enjoy exhibitionist sex. They like to be watched having sex. He has a big dick and gets an extra ego boost performing in front of other guys especially if the voyeur has a smaller cock. I have a tiny penis ( and a sph fetish) so I was a perfect candidate. It was all hush hush between us so no worries about our particular kinks being exposed.

 

Lately I've wanted to tell a few others of my "other side", but haven't had the real opportunity. Not going to buy a page in the local paper to announce it to the world, but...I'm definitely not ashamed, but rather proud I had the curiosity and balls to try other things. I found that over time, I enjoyed both, sucking/slurping on a nice, (way) above average, circumcised cock AND having it massage my prostate, with its head, buried deep in my ass as it explodes, filling me with a semen enema!!! But that was several decades ago...these days all I have to do is keep my wife (22 years, my junior) satisfied with oral sex.

 

Oh...and to occasionally meet my suck buddy for an undercover tyrst. I still suck some cock, but nothing like I used to do.

 

at the moment i don't rly have anyone that i talk to my kinks about with other than my boyfriend. i'd definitely like to have a platonic friend that i can talk about kinks and sexual preferences and experiences with bc that sounds interesting to me but the chance just hasn't come up quite yet ^-^

 

I found most guys with big dicks are like that. We had one friend who really enjoyed doing it in front of the girls husband or boyfriend. Most of the girls made it clear he was the biggest they ever had.

 

Only within the past year did I start discussing my kinks with friends. And of course, only with friends I already had a fairly open permissiveness to discuss masturbation in detail and personal specifics. If me and a friend are just sometimes like, "Hey, you ever notice when you're rubbing one out [yadda yadda yadda?]" That's not enough. It's gotta be someone where we're comfortable really getting into personal proclivities, methods, pornography we watch... etc. Admittedly, this has so far proven to be laregly sexually open female friends and queer friends. I personally wouldn't have an issue telling my kinks to a straight cis-male friend. But I've just never received the usual indicators that's a place they'd definitely be comfortable taking a sex convo. I have a couple kinks but my big big big one is pee. And that was the first one I started discussing with friends. The first time, I framed it as a genuine question to a straight female friend, telling them I was into it and I'm worried whether I need to tell the women I date as soon as possible to avoid them finding out because they come across my pull-ups and bed wetting pads and being like, "What the fuck?" Compared to if a woman heard it from me personally and understood it was an important convo for me and that I wasn't trying to hide anything from them. So, I asked my friend, if she was dating a guy with that kink, would it be any better or worse if she heard it straight from him or stumbled upon it? The point being, I busted my cherry talking about it by using a deliberately phrased "reason I needed to bring it up," Since then, when I tell other friends, I've had little to no compunction bringing it up. And NOBODY has blinked an eye. In fact, they're usually pretty curious to know more. The way I put it is, everyone has their thing. And nobody's thing is any more out there than anyone else's. People get judgmental about other people's kinks because it makes them feel more comfortable about theirs. I describe the psychology of it as "Well at least I'm not into THAT!"

 

I have a friend that is very open with me. We’ve discussed sexual dreams we’ve had. We’ve talked about porn we like and told each other about times we’ve masturbated or had sex with our partners. She even open up to me about doing some bondage at a place with her husband and a gal that fucked my friend with a strap on. I have confided how much I enjoy showing off my dick and how erotic I find it for other guys to see my wife’s nude body.

It’s great to share with someone but at the same time frustrating because there’s no way I would ruin our friendship and our marriages by fucking her.

 

I have a very good friend for many years. Attractive girl, but we have never done anything sexually. She had even told me that she thought I was very good looking and told me that she had a sexual dream about me. One time we went on a cruise together while both of us were single. We stayed in the same bed in a hotel the night before. I wondered if something would happen that week, but I wasn't going to initiate anything because of our friendship. I'm not exactly shy when it comes to women, but for some reason, I thought we were too good of friends to risk it. I thought, well, if she gives me any hints on the trip, then I guess I'll give it a shot. Nothing ever happened. In fact, we spend most of the cruise on our own. I hung out with some other girl I met. Oh well, still good friends to this day.

 

My friend and I have both had sexual dreams involving each other. We have told each other about masturbating while thinking about the dream later. Shamefully, we have both told the other that we fucked our spouses, closed our eyes and pictured it was the friend. I never would divorce my wife nor physically cheat on her….but omg, how badly we longed for each other. We are able to be totally open with each other without judgement.
She and I are still friends and talk often but slowly drifted away from the conversations of longing and things we would do for each other. It was too frustrating to be at that level of sexual tension and desire.

 

Maybe things worked out for the best.

I had a girl that was basically my best friend. I was single, but she had been in basically a sexless relationship. We started fooling around. It was nice, but she fell in love and broke up with her bf. Although I cared about her a lot, I just wasn’t in love with her and I ended up dating my current gf. My friend and I stopped being friends. She couldn’t be around me after falling in love if I couldn’t return it. She ended up back with her bf.

 

Other than my wife, here.

I’d never discuss them with my friends, and for good reason. Some of them have been unwitting participants in some of the sex games we play. Every one of our games has a third person in them and the third person never knows it. That is part of the object of the game.

 

I have been in two cuck relationships. In both cases most of the time the other guy's fucking my gf enjoyed fucking them in front of me. They didnt all have supersized dicks but even the closer to average sized guys liked that their cock was noticeably bigger than mine ( particularly when it came to girth as mine is very skinny) One guy was actually a virgin and jumped at the chance to change that status when my gf at the time told him how tiny my cock is. He fucked her without my presence the first time and totally gained confidence and had no reservations about fucking her again while I watched. He was further pumped up when he saw that his cock was about twice my size.

 

I have a fantasy of seeing a GF or ex-GF fucking a guy with a bigger dick in front of me. But (at the obvious risk of sounding vain) I wouldn't feel cucked or worried about it because I fuck better than anyone they've slept with and a guy with a big dick would have nothing on me.

 

Nobody IRL knows of my sexual desires or kinks 100%. Several partners have come close to enjoying most but not all.

 

I have met someone who I tell him everything and it’s so awesome and it’s been a long time since I have done that with anybody. And now I do I love it and I’m glad I met him.