What are some new kinks you have tried as you age?

I am 60. I remember purchasing a vibrator for my wife to try in my thirty’s. We never used it once.
It wasn’t until mid 50s that I read more about sex and commented to my wife about some interesting subjects.
Then I got into thong and Gstrings. Grew a collection of sex toys and metal cock rings. Slowly brought my wife into this at her own pace. She knows I am a complete horn dog, but she loves me all the same.
Whats your journey been?

 

Our journey took years. We’ve always been a sexy couple together. Basically, After we retired. We started going to nude resorts, it was there we learned about the lifestyle. We now have our own built in sex room in our new home.

 

Bravo

 

Still fantasizing fuck-licking, with me being the licker! Not just orally stimulating a swollen clit as the pussy is being pounded, but sucking vulva, cock and nutsack. Keeping fuck butter buildup, at bay!

 

I do not really consider it aging, but more of sexually maturing.….. expanding ones horizons. It has been a lengthy and interesting journey spread out over 4 + decades. so forgive me if this is a little too lengthy.

My journey began in my late teens/early 20s. One summer night, my next-door neighbor/high school buddy we’re out goofing off, and apparently I said something that pissed him off. I would not let it go, and he finally said “shut up, or suck my dick!“ I had never even thought about it before, but like an out of body experience, I said OK. a minute later, we are out behind the shed, and I was on my knees giving my first blow job.I kept thinking what the hell am I doing, but I liked it. of course at that age, even with my inexperience, it did not take long for him to come. Yeah I swallowed….. I have never heard about spitting. Started a rather length the SB friendship. Some of the best times or when I would pitch a tent at the back of my parents property, and we would have a sleepover. Suck each other off at night, crash, and then do it again in the morning as the eastern sky was starting to get light. Never even thought that we were gay or bi….. it was just something fun and it felt good.

more adventures over the years with women. I started developing a kink for wife sharing. I mentioned it to my long-term, live-in girlfriend, but she almost immediately dismissed it. However, one night she told me that a bi Female coworker was hitting on her. GF Seemed curious, and I told her it was OK with me if she went for it, And she did like a fish to water. That went on for about a year and we eventually broke up for other reasons. I was in my late 20s by then.

FF a couple of years and I met my future wife. She was pretty kinky from the get-go. Toys and porn and mind games. I eventually confess to her my wife sharing/hot wife fantasies. as I expected, she thought I was using that as an excuse for me to fool around. I told her no, it was all to be about her. Eventually, her personal trainer at the gym hit on her. What should she do? I told her to go for it! so she did, and that started a six month affair. I never would have imagined that I would enjoy her getting home after a date, and going down on her. Never would have thought that I would enjoy cream pies and seconds! it was intense!

FF To my current wife of 25+ Years. A very conservative divorce, mother of two Young-ins.. The night of our first date was probably the best sex to date. Anyway, it took a while to bring her out of her shell. Again, I confessed my “sharing“ fantasy, and as expected, she wondered why I would want to share her. “why?…. so I could get some strange?” so anyway the process of opening her up continued. we talked about swapping with another couple, to the point of meeting a local like-minded couple. we seem to hit it off… they were both bi, which was a repressed fantasy of her’s. Nothing happened the night of our first meeting, except that my desire for this other wife was crushed. my fiancé said that she did not think she could handle me having sex with another woman. Well sh*t. But that did not stop her from having a one nighter with this other wife. She never did it again. WHY NOT? Anyway, things progressed to new toys, thongs for both of us, pegging, and eventually a few MFMs with a trusted close friend. Those were all extremely intense!

And then aging kicked in for her. A once vibrant exciting sex life ended in our late 50s. WTH? So now NOTHING!

I’m sorry this is so long, HF Seems to be my therapy.

 

Fuck licking is so hot….loved it!

 

I don't think I've tried new "kinks." New stuff I've gotten into over the past few years is regularly watching porn and trying out almost any genre. Vibrators as my main masturbation method. Solo anal penetration rather than just fingering my partner's butthole and vice versa during sex. But I wouldn't call those "kinks." However, there are numerous kinks I've always had and of which I've always been aware that I've begun really leaning into and exploring different versions. The big one being pee. I'd always been turned on by seeing women pee but not very into self-wetting or water sports or adult pull-ups. But three years ago, I tried wetting myself in pull-ups on a total whim and it immediately and ever since became a stock part of my masturbation sessions. I've also gotten over any need to hide my arousal at seeing women pee from girlfriends. I've always pee'd with girlfriends. It's more that I whenever they'd pee in front of me under various circumstances as a playfully coquettish thing, I always pretended to enjoy it on that same level and played down how exciting it was for me. Now, I'm just like, "I'm into pee. We can take that as far as you're comfortable with, or it can just be a 'me thing.' Up to you." Guess how many women have run out the door when I tell them? Abso-fuckin-lutely zilch!

 

Revisiting an old kink. I’m completely shaved again! The new part of this kink is the glans ring

 

As I got older
..things g strings then womens panties, pantyhose & bras. Shaving/brazillian self wax/emulating smooth & bare is great. Dildos and self anal play, butt plug, cock rings, urethral sounds, chastity cage and self locking..would love to try fuck licking, getting pegged, bottoming, topping, sucking a guy while a girl watched us, being tied up, eating cream pie (mine & others) growing tiny breasts to put some thing natural in the bras I wear, being the cuck to a couple wanting to play, CFNM...CBT..open to darn near anything...

 

Similar to the OP my wife and I are in our 60's (married 38+ years). Years ago I bought my wife a vibrator and it sat in the closet collecting dust (didn't even make it to the dresser drawer). I am also much hornier than she is. As the years have passed she has opened up a bit and we each have some toys that we both use (me much more than her).

 

very recently I indulged a sph related fantasy experience. It all came about through my female kink buddy turned long distance occassional kinky sexplay partner.
As part of a foursome with a bi couple the two women involved watched as the other guy fucked me. I came without anyone touching my little cock. The sph kick was greater than I had ever imagined.