reason for bi

I've never given any thought to WHY I'm bi. It's never occurred to me that I needed a reason. I just am. Figured that out when I was a teenager.

 

Same for me. As i said earlier i knew i was bi from my early teens and never did much about it. It wasnt until i confessed to my wife and we experimented with straight and bi 3 somes. We both have boyfriends now, she has been seeing the same one for around 3 years now while i have a friend in his 60's and we could not be happier. We have a great sex life together while both having fun with others

 

Because I like both dick and pussy. I would even say equally, not one more than the other.

 

Agreed.

 

I’m on my 3rd failing marriage. I’ll never stop enjoying sex with women but wonder how much easier and emotionally safer regular sex with men would be. It’s been so long since I’ve been with a guy I need to work up the nerve to find and have sex again with one.

 

Easier? Very likely. Emotionally safer? That's debatable since some guys are actually looking to get into their feelings with another guy, establish a good, solid FWB situation, and go on from there so I wouldn't want to say that sex with men is emotionally safer but that all depends upon your "strategy" for having sex with men and what you feel your needs really are. I've known guys who've said that they're just in it for the sex and find out that there's more to it than just having sex; I've known guys who are, um, well, not exactly looking for love in that sense but looking for a guy they can trust and bond with but find that there are "way too many men" out there who just wants to have sex with you and... call it a day. Let's keep it NSA, shall we? Such guys may get the sexual satisfaction they're looking for, but their emotional satisfaction could go by the wayside and they could become disillusioned about having sex with guys in the first place and... it can get messy.

But, sure - work up the nerve, have sex with a guy again, and see where it wants to take you - then decide if you wanna go there or in a different direction.

 

No emotions. Just pleasure. Show up, get hard, get sucked, cum in my mouth, leave.

 

Thanks for your words of wisdom

 

Lol, exactly

 

My first experience and next decade was just with other males. First experience I remember how huge his cock was. I was afraid to touch it. He put my hand on his cock and I liked it. Other experiences involved learning about cumming and sucking then swallowing...and so far no girls...i loved cock but seeing naked wonen stirred me to. I've been sexual since the start and will suck cock, eat pussy, as long as it's sex and brings both pleasure..call it bi gay straight curious doesn't matter to me.

 

I've always loved cock play, from the very first moment I discovered my own. All my life, I've never not been Bi.

 

Damn, too bad you’re in Kentucky

 

Being with another woman was not an option that my wife gave me, so I took her suggestion and went the bi route with our old friend. I didn't expect to be cock sucker that I always wanted her to be. Whatever I did, I wanted to be good at it, so I always gave it my best efforts.

 

Blow-n-go, that is bi excitement. I want sex with cock but I couldn't be intimate with a man. I can't explain it even if I wanted too. I'm just this way and always have been.

 

Never jumped to the other side, still love pussy, just like cock too.

 

Never say NEVER