Going to put this in my blog…several of you have asked about pain becoming pleasure. As some of you have likely read in my blog and in prior posts, I am a bit extreme with regards to the number of sexual partners I have had and also a bit extreme with the intensity of sex that I desire. If you follow me, you can infer that I often will experience pain in my encounters and occasionally an injury. I do find that my most intense orgasms are right as I’m getting vigorous deep and/or wide penetrations that are getting painful. Then when the orgasm or that orgasmic trance/euphoria begins, the pain simply vanishes. Before I wrote about this, I spoke at length with my doctor (who is a respected women’s health doctor) and she consulted with some psychologist colleagues. First thing that was said was that all individuals are different with respect to pain, but I was not abnormal: a few comments that I remember at the moment: (sorry, may not have captured everything correct in translation) 1) sex is wired as a pleasure in our brain, but too much of the pleasure can dull it and make it boring over time. Rough or hard sex can be painful and the pain is a contrast to the pleasure and makes the pleasure more noticeable in the brain 2) pain in sex will release dopamines and opioids (like the “Runners High” from physical exertion) as well as the pleasure from the sex itself which also releases the same chemicals….so certainly the potential for a much more intense orgasm 3) intense orgasms and orgasmic trances can turn much nerve stimuli to pleasure, blocking out pain, virtually losing oneself in the moment…and being aware of the potential for crossing the line to more serious injury can occur (I am attesting to that right now) 4) I don’t do any BSDM, no choking, etc….just hard sex and occasionally with huge penises. But, everything needs to be consensual and safe words, etc need to be observed 5) none of this pain turning to pleasure applies at all if there are underlying sexual medical conditions…talk to your doctor My purpose is not to have pain for the purpose of pain! I enjoy bed breaking, earth shaking sex and if some pain is an element that brings me to a higher, more intense orgasmic experience, I’m full speed ahead!
Wow…I’ve been with a couple girls like you, but they are hard to find. Where are you from, I’d love to test you to see if your theories are true!…or at least fantasize about it!
One of my friends takes a good, hard spanking from me at times. She usually tells me what she did and knows she will be spanked. We've done this for years. She gets stripped, hands get tied together and held over her head. She is made to stand on her toes and take her spanking. Across her ass cheeks, thighs. breasts and pussy. Then she gets a bath and oral until she climaxes. She is ALWAYS wet by the time I strip her naked but she will tell you it's not because of being stripped. Like, losing clothing during strip poker is sexy and makes people get hard or wet. No, she is anticipating the pain of the spanking and that's what gets her juices running.
A friend of mine was a Dominatrix. She had her stable of pets that she would inflict pain upon in her "dungeon". She had one pet whose wife brought him to her for discipline. She would tie them up, verbally abuse them, spank and whip them, even to the point of leaving marks on their bodies. She never fucked them (that was our thing outside her BDSM activities) but would issue copious amounts of discipline to these men. The men got off on the pain of being disciplined, cumming at times without fucking, sucking, or even being masturbated. It was a never ending stream of men coming to see her of which she never had sex with. She just treated them like shit and inflicted pain through various ways of spanking. And the men loved it. Or at least they seemed to as they would come back time and time again to be whipped, flogged, and spanked.
