My wife and I have been married for 18 years. We have been discussion our fantasies and mine is seeing her with another man. Does anyone have experiences they could share? How did you find a man? How did you make sure it was safe for your wife? Etc.
This is a thing I indulged in quite a lot but the reality can be surprisingly complicated. Once it’s happening you might find yourself feeling jealousy. Not uncommon at all. It can be much easier if you are exploring this with a girlfriend. A wife of eighteen years is something to consider carefully.
Very true. We have discussed it a detail. I cannot be 100% sure I won't get jealous, but it something we both are open to and have talked about it in detail. I feel more inclined with my wife that I fully trust. But I do appreciate the advice.
You might try finding a man/woman 1couple first with a common interest in swapping. Having another woman is always reassuring to your wife, even if they don’t play together. What I am trying say is if the girls get along together it really is a more relaxed time. With a MFMF there are so many combinations of play.
Our first time was a long time ago to put it in perspective we found the guy on Craigslist. I suggested the idea to my wife. She thought about it for sometime after my suggestion. We role played in the bedroom with the idea of another guy. It was quite a turn on. Then one night out of the blue after fucking she said “ if you want to see me fuck other guys I’ll do it for you”. My cock got instantly hard again. When the day came we had the guy meet us at a hotel. He was about 10 years younger and had a nice thick cock. Being the first time we agreed he’d fuck her and leave. My perspective I was a mix of emotions excitement, nervous and during anxious and jealous. We fucked after and it was incredible. As time passed the uncertainty passed and got to the point I would hold her pussy open for the other guy. Experienced ranged from me sitting back and watching her get ravaged to DP.
As said earlier, We only play with married couples. We get together with them about once a month. Once we stepped into the swapping lifestyle we never looked back. It’s just fun sex that’s all. No jealousy, no anxiety, Just joy and happiness. We have even held hands while fucking others.
I know all about the mixed emotions, but when my girl did it, it was just sex. I have fond memories and still get excited thinking about it. 50 years later.
Be careful what you wish for. It is a two edged sword! Yes, it is exciting to watch your spouse having sex with another guy, and thoroughly enjoying it. It is also almost like a punch in the gut when you see how much she enjoys it. Fortunately, my arousal Overrode the jealousy and in security, I felt. Conflicting emotions. We had a few MFMs with the same trusted friend. No way would we do it with a stranger!
