Question for the Guys

It wouldn’t at all

 

Wouldn't bother me at all

 

Already know or have known bi guys and gals. I am mostly hetero but my sexual activities and fantasies include some interaction with other guys.

 

That’s a topic that comes up a lot I think, I am older but now I am leaning into exploring a bi side of me that’s always has been in the back of my mind

 

I wouldn't. Bi is just a title.

 

I would be pleased

 

I don't think it would. I think that years ago, it would affect me and make me feel awkward but I'm changed and the times have changed...all for the better.

 

I’d be happy because we’d have something in common.

 

If you found out another guy was bisexual, be it your friend, brother, co-worker, neighbor, etc., how would that affect your attitude toward that person?

Personally, I've always kept my sexual preferences to myself but have had a number of men divulge information to me about their sexual preferences and I've never thought any less of them. With him having shared that information with me it helped me to be openly honest with him which led to some fantastic mutual oral sex. I could never do something with a brother but had always been open to doing things with a friend, neighbor, or co-worker. I did have an enjoyable afternoon with a co-worker one afternoon that started off a bit awkward but finished very satisfying for both of us. In the end, I held a lot of respect for those men being that they had the courage to be openly honest with me and could never feel anything negative towards them when I myself felt the very same way.

 

No effect.

 

I wouldn't care in the least. I would probably have a few questions that I would hope they would answer openly and honestly, but it wouldn't affect our relationship. I have straight friends and I have gay friends. I'm sure that I have bi friends, but they just don't admit it openly!

 

I had a hockey teammate that told me after a game that he was bi. He offered to give me a bj, but I said, no thank you. He told me that it was a standing offer if I ever changed my mind. Other than him flirting with me, it never changed our friendship. I've never cared about anyone's sexual preference nor what other people in the bedroom.

I had a similar experience with my first manager at a Fortune 100 company. It never changed our friendship either.

 

I had a few casual relationships because of this

 

I remember meeting a guy who was very obviously trying to tell me something. It wasn't that I didn't know what he was trying to say but I had fun watching how he wanted to tell me that he was bisexual and if we could do something. For literally weeks, he hinted and tried to seduce me; I'd go to his house and he'd jump in the shower and come out all wet, naked, and sometimes rather erect while acting like nothing was amiss - and I played dumb just to see what he was going to say or do next.

I got tired of "playing the game" and I think he did as well. He had put a hand on my thigh, looked me in the eye and said, "There's something I've been meaning to tell and ask you...". He told me he was bi; he told me that he wanted me; he said that he hoped this didn't ruin our friendship. He was happy and not so much when I told him that I knew already and that his hints didn't go over my head - I was just waiting for him to say the words. We had a long talk about being bisexual and shared our respected origin stories - then settled in for a nice long session of cocksucking.

I mean, really - what are friends for if you can't give each other head?

 

You are my prophet

 

I would hope it would deepen our relationship and take it to a physical, sexual level. Had BFF as a teen who was open & I got to suck him off almost every day for 3 years & occasionally after that. Be great to have a friend like this again.

 

I think if it affected my attitude to him, I'm not such a good friend as I thought I was.