Wife had affair but instead of getting mad I was turned on.

When my girlfriend (later wife) told me of her fling it opened up a new world for me.

 

My wife has had at least 3 boyfriends that I am aware of since we have been married. For me it is quite the turn on to know she has been out and fucked senseless coming home with cum filled panties. I have made love to her afterwards knowing she is full of another guys cum.

 

All I will say is that when a long term girlfriend confessed to playing around the hurt, anger and extreme disappointment was superceded by an unexpected massive arousal. We stayed together and enjoyed an expansively new sexual side to our relationship.

 

Same here…forever changed our lifestyle, we opened up our marriage and we had various forms and inter-connected lifestyles , from being a hotwife to cuckhold .,and even poly ..on top of that me being bi/gay leaning more gay ..

 

Part of the expansive new sex lifestyle was fueled by the realization that I had the SPH fetish ( small penis humiliation) and that also led me into not only cuck things but some bi activity or interests I had not had before. One of which I have not actually engaged in before ( nor even had on my radar). I want to at least give it a go and if it doesnt live up to my fantasy imagination I take it off my list or put it on a shelf. I want to suck the cock of whichever guy fucks my girlfriend while she or any other female watches me do it. It is humiliation / subjegation to the 'superior' man and his bigger/better cock.

 

Not all bigger cock's are better and definitely not superior, however I agree to the humiliation by being watched by others. We all like to think we are at least in the average bracket and it does matter how you develop other skills to compensate for your lack of size during sex. From other comments and answers really big cocks eventually suffer from Erectile Disfunction which I belief becomes an issue to those players that are high users. So women don't always enjoy anything but the visual delight of their partners big cock flopping about.

 

It takes more than a big dick, my wife would admit liking a big one once in a while but had a few big ones that were lousy in bed. She never cheated we agreed to an open relationship and was free to have anyone she wanted, but if he didn't please her, she never seen him again. One thing is most swinging couples we knew when it came to threesomes they wanted bigger men. My wife said the same was true of the married women who cheated on their husband liked bigger dicks.

 

Many years ago, my wife of 15 yrs and I seperated for over a year. Our jobs put us in unique positions that allowed us to sexually thrive . We didn't really talk about things in detail until 30 yrs later. It revealed some pretty hot and funny stories.

 

We played with various sex toys and I had fucked my wife with one of our larger realistic cocks. I could see the pleasure that she was gettting as I fucked her to a very strong orgasm. There was no denying that she enjoyed a big one. We lived a don't ask, don't tell if we messed around on each other. Decades later it morphed into yet another sexual phase that suited our age and health.

 

Way before I had developed my sph fetish I was about to have sex with a woman and I happened to see a dildo I assumed she used while she was freshening up in the bathroom. It was definitely on the huge side of large. My tiny dick looked like thumb compared it. Despite my extra trepidation over my ability to live up to her standards the enlogated foreplay seemed to float her boat alright but I am pretty certain my little thing didnt.

 

For us she enjoyed big didoes when she played with her girlfriends. Maybe that's what made her want to try a big dick. Not long after getting the real thing a few times we went to adult toy store and got her a life like toy which was big but smaller than sone of her girlfriends.