In your first same sex experience did you kiss on lips or just sex?

Recently or far in the past. I get that you love cock but variety is great. Did you get off with a girl?

 

Just cock sucking for me. Giving and receiving and I really only just started a year or so ago.

 

My first time was as a teen playing around with my best friend. No kissing but we did jerk each other off.

 

I think the question is whether or not kissing is more intimate than fucking and/or sucking cock; I happen to believe that they're just as intimate and personal but fucking and sucking doesn't require affection all that much except for relationships. Of the five guys I've kissed, only two of them were intentional; the other three... just kinda happened. I've been sitting here looking at this post and trying to remember the details of that peck on the lips me and my friend gave each other, and I don't even know why we did it - yet.

 

So, to kinda put this in context, men - in particular - can experience that first same-sex moment that could have started with a kiss... or dicks came out, got sucked, whatever one did for their first same-sex experience. We... want to romanticize this and just like women make us do with them, i.e., romance first and foremost and with sex as a secondary, tertiary or last ditch thought. Men... understand "sex only" which is probably why with the exception of gay men, kissing is just... yuck. Dude I'd rather suck twenty guys off before I kiss a dude! It still "remains true" that it's a gay thing to do and guys are still of a mind to sleep with a man as long as things don't get romantic but when we look at "history," sex between men has almost always been, well, sex only; save the kissy-face stuff for the ladies or if you happen to be gay - but if two girls kiss, well, that's fine and well within the feminine wheelhouse.

Things have changed; now you have rather masculine guys who aren't gay who'd want to play tonsil hockey with you, and it has zero romantic intent because kissing can be quite erotic and stimulating. I'd hazard a bit of a guess that porn plays a part in this because I know my protege sends me tons of porn clips where guys are kissing from the start and, as such, some guys can get it into their heads that, well, this is how two guys are supposed to start having sex... right up until the moment they go to kiss a guy and things don't go well. Then consider that a lot of guys didn't get into M2M sex until, oh, between the ages of 35 and 60 and, as such, a forum member wanted to know if they kissed or not because (a) maybe he did or (b) maybe he didn't and had reason to think that he did something wrong. I'm not sure but there seems to be more guys into kissing these days than I can begin to remember and even then, the only "true guy kissers" were gay dudes and that's fine... except they shouldn't expect other men to be into kissing and as a matter of course. It's personal preference and like thepapasmurph said, kissing is intimate and deemed to be too personal and intimate for "general purposes" which is fine since most guys wanna hit it and go on about their business and save the romantic stuff for a wife, girlfriend, long-time FWB, etc..

If you did some same sex lip-locking as a part of your first experience, good - and I mean it because not many guys/gals I know personally got kissed during their first time.

 

I think the statement "guys separate sex from relationships" is spot on. In my younger years (before I got married) i had a few male sex encounters and they were just sex (still young and trying to figure things out), and it was just sex (blowjobs, anal sex, jerk off sessions). But then there was this one guy that I was in college with (we both had girl friends at the time), that we got quite drunk and ended up in the shower together and we kissed and then finished our shower. Never actually had sex with him. But looking back on it he was more effeminate than the other guys, so maybe that played a factor, not sure. When I look at pictures of naked guys and gals, I never envision myself kissing the guys, but I do the gals. But then again seeing picture of a cock is very arousing for me. I wonder what it would be like to suck on a cock again. But I am happily and faithfully married so that won't happen. That is what fantasies are for when jerking off. I envision sucking on cocks and eating pussies, all with my wife there as well. I have told her that if she ever was willing to be in a threesome I wouldn't care if it was another man or woman. She knows my past, and knows I am totally faithful to her. So we leave it at that. An open invitation if she is ever up for it.

 

Just sex, the kiss came later

 

Just sex, he blew me

 

Just oral sex

 

It was a friend. We were already masturbating together quasi-regularly and had both made out with guys before. One time we talked about wanting to try sucking dick. We looked at each other and shrugged. So we gave each other handjobs for a bit and once we were both hard sucked each other's dicks. We were horny for sure. But there was no attraction or romance to it.

 

My first time with a man was sex and losing my cherry.
I can't say how old i was as i'd probably be banned but i have kissed boys over the years and to be honest it's not my thing,i'll give blow jobs,hand jobs or let them mount me but i can kiss girls all day long but kissing a man just wants to make me vomit.