When did you decide to try sucking a cock

Not the Opportunity, It's the desire to do it. There are husbands who have the curiousity about Anything sexual , especially when older and the wife is all but done with sex, except for the occasional pegging. I would think most men are Natural Cock Suckers, because they know what feels best and can naturally reciprocate. Problem is that we cant talk about it with any guy or friends unless the situation was prompted by a woman.

 

Los Angeles?? Lol

 

No one had to talk me into it. I decided to finally give into the desire to suck another man when I just couldn’t ignore the desire to anymore. It wasn’t long after puberty that I discovered I could get the head of my cock in my mouth. So the taste and sensation of a cock lubricated with precum was familiar and the taste of cum wasn’t off putting to me. I liked it. I began to fantasize about sucking another man’s cock.
I didn’t act on it until my early 50’s. I thought I’ll try this one time and get it out of my system. Well, I loved it! And then the struggle was how do I not do this again? Eventually I came to the conclusion not to ignore it. Fortunately I figured out there are men out there just like me. They want to suck my cock as much as I want to suck theirs. Wow! Why did I do this sooner?!

 

topper said, "Problem is that we cant talk about it with any guy or friends unless the situation was prompted by a woman."

That's not the whole truth of the situation. Married guys can find a way to talk about it to anyone they want to and without any prompting from a woman. Sure, you need her permission to act on your thoughts and feelings where a nice hard cock goes but as they say, talk is cheap. Doesn't cost a whole lot just to talk about it and if you gotta go to a woman and ask her permission to talk to someone?

Back in the day, one might say you were pussy whipped. You do what you gotta do in this and if you can get her permission - and maybe even her participation - all well and good but since the majority of men won't be able to do that, sorry, baby but I need to see a guy about a dick. It is still better to beg forgiveness than to ask for permission that you may not get - you can get your ass in trouble for asking for it.

 

oh well.

 

I was 100% heterosexual until my early 30's when I started playing with guys. That was a big step for me and I set some boundaries for myself. Strictly manual. No oral and no anal. I'm a hypocrite, so, I didn't mind receiving oral, but I would not offer it.

I maintained those boundaries for years. But, then I started questioning that. Why was I making oral such a big deal? In forums like this, I found/met many men that enjoyed giving oral. I wondered "Was I missing out on something?"

So, I decided to take away the oral boundary and was open to sucking if the moment was right.

I finally did and my response was neutral. It wasn't gross, but it wasn't amazing. The next time I sucked a cock, I made him cum and I swallowed it up. I was hooked. I will never again hesitate to go down on a guy.

 

I'm just smiling...

 

Hi, I was in a bar having a drink chatting away with some guy at the hotel, he asked me if I wanted to a drink in his room ok I said, once in his room he got drinks, we were both 35 in good shape and both married, he went to the toilet and came back only weary boxer shorts but his cock was semi hard and out about 8” uncut I licked my lips as he came closer to me sitting down, you like to suck it? Yes I replied he took one step forward lifted his cock onto my lower lip I began to torso mt tongue around the head as big as it was he made some noises and put his hands around the back of my head and pushed his cock deeper and deeper into my mouth his cock began to throb and I knew he was close to coming and worked his cock as I felt him stiffen up and felt the first spurt of cum hit the back of my throat then the next went straight down my throat he pulled out then and splattered my face in cum as he lent down he began to lick the cum off my face then he cumkissed me with a mouth full of cum. My first but not last experience Lin Australia

 

Was this this your first time? Were you "scared?"

 

That's the thing, isn't it? There's something about you being a guy who just made another guy cum, and swallowing his cum, with joy, that does it for a lot of guys. Part of it is that you empathize with him, having a cock lover who actually enjoys drinking his cum, perhaps for the first time in his life. Giving pleasure and a little bit of happiness to a kindred spirit is a powerful thing. The thing with MM cocksucking is that it's often even more pleasurable for the cocksucker than the suckee. And there's something very special and perhaps even spiritual about consuming another man's semen and making his seed DNA part of you. I can't explain it. All of this is why it's so addictive.

 

The thing I've come to really dislike is someone asking me what it feels like to suck another guy off. Those who don't suck cock can't wrap their heads around the fact that there are two parts to sucking a man's dick and making him cum: The physical and the emotional. The physical feelings are hard enough to understand, and I've told people that the best way to come close to what it feels like is to put their thumb or little finger in the mouth and... suck and lick it. The emotional component tends to kick in without any warnings or, as some have found, the moment they realize that they've been sucking their thumb for quite a bit of time and when you ask them what it felt like, all they can say is, "It felt good!"

Of course, the real answers don't exactly play nice when it comes to having the words to describe the feeling and it's so... deep that you brain just shortens it up into three words: It feels/felt good!" And so damned addictive. You do it once and you're either hooked right away or you don't get hooked until the next time you do it... but you will be hooked on it. Guys who get to be adults before they finally suck cock for the first time tend to get pissed because they can instantly think of all the times they might have had a chance to suck cock before now and... they didn't do it.

And my two favorite new-guy questions: Why didn't I do this before now and what was I afraid of?

 

Taking a man's cum down the hatch can be daunting. I don't know of anyone who hasn't heard that it's an acquired taste; likewise, I don't know too many people who haven't heard that men who suck cock also swallow cum and as a matter of course even though I... don't know why. Some say we do it because a lot of women won't swallow cum and that was - or still is - a major selling point in order to get a guy to give you his dick to suck and with the near 100% guarantee that you could cum in his mouth and he'd swallow every drop... and then get mad when there's no more cum to suck out of him... yet.

I don't know how many new guys have said that sure - I want to give sucking your cock a try but, ah, don't cum in my mouth, okay? So very reminiscent of the many females who have stated this condition with one real exception, that being I could warn a guy that I was going to cum and he'd nod or "moan" that he heard me and keep right on sucking and through another warning or two before I'm cum. Some let it into their mouth but spit it out and some surprised me by swallowing it and I have loved the look on their face that says, "Hey, that wasn't as bad as I thought it was/I heard it was!"

For me, swallowing his cum and after the moment he's cursing, fucking into my mouth, or he just gives into what I'm going to make him do, I feel his prick swelling and that first spurt is a very big "Ahh..." moment for me and gulping down the rest is... gravy - and the pun is intended. Sucking off a newbie - and especially a guy who has never been sucked off before - is so special and precious that I don't have any words for it. Unlike a lot of guys here, I... came right out of the gate "sucking" cock and getting a mouthful of some stuff that, well, I didn't know what it was and there was a lot of it, and I swallowed most of it and... I liked it. I was hooked. I cannot begin to imagine what it's like to be between ages of 35 and 60 and (a) sucking cock for the very first time and (b) tasting and swallowing the guy's cum and more so when there's a lot of... sexual baggage a guy has to get rid of in order to suck a man's cock (and baggage I didn't have).

 

My experience sucking a cock was accidental during a MFM the guy was fucking my wife ans she asked me to fuck lick him as he fucked her I reluctantly went down as he pumped his 8” uncut cock in and out I strayed licking his cock and luckily liked it then licking the length of his cock and lubricating it as he got close to shooting his load my told him to pull out and into my mouth and cum down my throat, I felt him about to cum she he pulled out and inserted his cock down my throat and shot a huge load of cum down my ghost and over my face, first of many cocks

 

Try and not get upset when a guy asks you what its like to suck a cock? Its a big risk for a guy to even ask you that, and he's likely looking for the social encouragement / approval that it's ok to talk about, and also to do it?

As you wrote in your next post, you did not grow up with the baggage that the majority of us bi guys did about sucking cock, swallowing cum, getting sucked. Fucking and getting fucked are like another order of magnitude more messed up for many of us beyond just cock sucking?

 

A lot of people know that I'm bi - and I don't care that they know and, yep, they're prone to asking me what it's like and, yes, sometimes because they were looking to do it and needed to find a guy who wasn't going to mind doing it but could... inform them. Fucking/being fucked is a whole different critter and, for me, it was part of having sex with a guy and, as such, I just got used to it and, really, what's so bad about it that God said it's a sin? But there's the whole, um, what that hole's primary purpose is and hearing how it hurts going in and now you're with a friend who wants to fuck you - and you want to... but those two things I just mentioned and because of them, it was easier to get a guy to suck me off in lieu of being very leery about being screwed.

Like the cocksucking thing, I can't imagine what it's like to be grown and even contemplating some dude with a huge pornstar dick talking about putting it in my ass - and that's presuming that I got my head loaded up with all that baggage about it being gay. Been there, done that and before adulthood came along. I will say that (a) some adults take to sucking cock like ducks to water and (b) some adults have been thinking about being fucked for so long - and maybe being pegged or otherwise have a dildo in their ass that when it's time to get the real thing in there?

Not a problem and, yeah, it's a major decision point and right along with deciding that today is a good day to suck a dick. I... never decided; I just went with the flow of it all because it was exciting and naughty and it felt really, really good; the satisfaction of being able to suck a guy off and swallow his spunk or sucking him until he's hard as a diamond - then lying down so he can stick it in you and screw you until he shoots his load into you and it's all so comfortable and exciting and... just the way it is.

Which doesn't quite apply to being an adult and making such a decision. My protege once asked me if I wasn't already bisexual, would I have tried it when I got older/being an adult and I couldn't answer him except to say, "Probably... I don't know."

 

In my case, I was in SE Asia where I had already had a few months of sensual massage finishing with him giving me oral that led me to CL to find a masseur who would come to my hotel. He had what I’ve learned is my body type: 5’8”, compact frame, muscled but not huge, and an open friendly and pleasant face.

As he was working my shoulders clad only in his undies - it was understood that I was the one who would get pleasured, but never stated - I reached up to feel his crotch. It was bulging but he didn’t do anything except keep massaging - but also didn’t pull away. I worked his cock out of his undies which I dragged to the floor and proceeded to take him in my mouth. All the way in, like a challenge to see how much I could take. I could touch his balls with my tongue and keep him in my mouth, and stars exploded as I realized how perfectly a cock fits in my mouth and how wonderful the texture was.
I didn’t suck him to orgasm and he continued on with a phenomenal massage that included my first prostate massage and his dick riding along my ass. He sucked me to completion and when it was over he went and showered and dressed.

As we said goodbye I told him how much I enjoyed it and asked him his stats and he said “12cm” so less than 6”. I asked him why he didn’t try to see if I wanted anal sex and he said “I can tell you’re still too tight; take your time, you’re not there yet” hahah he knew I was eager to go from zero to 60 on my journey!

 

So why didn't you finish him off?

 

Still not sure! The desire to take him in my mouth was natural, instinctual, and really pleasurable. Perhaps I was too “green” and not ready to go from cocksucker to cumsucker. Or I still had societal baggage. Or I was selfish. Probably all of that!
I still haven’t taken a mouthful, but damn I love the feel of a cock in my mouth!!

 

well i wont say the age.. but i started very young and it was a friend who started it. back then i just wanted to play show and tell with the girls LOL but one day he asked me if i wanted to show cocks. so.. i was like.. ok. and then he wanted to touch and suck and stuff. and it all progressed from there. one thing i never understood was.. even at the younger age. he wanted to get me to kiss. and at the time i was like hell no. but i never understood why he wanted to do that. he would ask me from time to time over the years. if i wanted to do it. . i finally gave in and it was hot.. we kept doing stuff till i was about 24 and he was the same age as me.. but he discovered pussy LOL so i went to the back burner LOL. i missed it though.