Best way to meet other bisexuals?

I'm bi and married, so I can't hook-up when I'm home, but I travel for work a lot.

I have used many apps and sites (Reddit, Bateworld, Grindr, etc) to meet guys and it's really difficult. Most men talk a good game, but they won't follow through.

I really wish Bi guys had a lapel pin or something to indicate that they are down. It would be great to just go to the lobby bar, wearing my pin and look for other guys. The pin says "I'm available."

 

It depends on what time you're going to the bathhouse I find. If you're there in the evening when more middle-aged and mature *bi* guys are there, then you might have to be the one that breaks the ice, say in a sauna where a bunch of guys are only masturbating. I often found that I had to do just that, that I had the guts and horniness to do it. So I can make the move with one guy, perhaps sitting next to me, putting my hand on his leg for instance, not getting it pushed away, and then eventually taking hold of his cock and stroking him, and eventually starting to suck his cock. That would always be a sort of catalyst to make other guys be good to reach out and play with their neighbors. Before long it could even be a complete group suck fest--very hot!

But if you're going there after the bars close, so like 2am perhaps, then the place would be much more crowded with younger *gay* guys, and there would be action happening everywhere, and you can get some of it for sure.

Bottom line is that you just can't be passive, but instead dive in with stroking, sucking and even fucking another guy, even multiple times during the night with different people. You're in a place where man-on-man sex is really happening and gay desires run rampant. That is not the time or place to be shy, but to live your desires openly and freely. You've got to have the feeling that, I was born for this and it's completely natural and normal.