Is it cheating?

What Cheaters don't see is the HURT while it is fun and games to them. If it has not happened to you, then you have no idea of what they are going threw because because of the "screw you" attitude. When the one you love more than life shows how much they hate you by doing the worst thing they could ever do against you, it is not just an heart ache but a physical pain in your heart that feels like a knife has cut into it and it is an eternal hurt that will be with you forever and every time you hear "She is cheating on you" you feel it again. They bare the shame in ridicule and called stupid and a fool and shun you and will not talk to you. They will sympathize with the woman but will blame the man as more his fault because he put up with it. Cheaters are low Life of dishonesty, Liars and Self Centered that only care for themselves looking for other Low Life. I Know because my father in law cheated on his wife their while married life. "The sins of the father shall visit the children" and my wife cheated on me our whole married life. But no one else matters but YOU

 

Perhaps some introspection wouldn't go amiss. It seems you're blaming everyone else with no criticism of yourself.

 

Nailed it!