humiliation - what is the big turn on ?

I developed good oral and digital skills a long time ago and that buys me a lot of mileage but in the end most women want a good fuck to go along with it.

 

In addition to my last post I have been with at least two women who had relatively less interest in foreplay and really just want a good banging. Both of them were totally attracted to even the visual of a big dick soft or hard

 

I never considered myself the world's greatest lover so when my girlfriend told me she wanted to try a big dick I was fine even curious as to how she would react. Still when she went to bed with a man referred to as donkey dick and being hung like a horse, I had mixed emotions. Later we had a threesome and even thought my dick is better than average on the thick side it's a funny feeling seeing her enjoy being fucked by someone else. But I was happy for her, and she was happy when I enjoyed other women.
Hopefully you can find true love. She will love you for who you are, and she can still have sex with others and both be happy. I know a couple like you the guy is on the small side but he likes watching her with other men. She told me even though he was small love was enough for her to enjoy sex with him.

 

My last two partners ( girlfriends) only broke off with me because they emigrated to other countries because of their careers. They both had known each other as colleagues before either of them met me.One actually introduced me to the other just before she departed England and then about 2 years later the second woman was given an opportunity she couldnt pass up. I am still in contact with both. I had enjoyed a semi open, cuck style sex life with both of them and everybody was happy.
I now am involved in a long distance open relationship with another woman (Carolyn) who lives in Canada but travels to Europe on a regular basis. She has been to England 3 times already this year and is going to be back again sometime in August. I have known her since I lived in Canada a couple of decades ago. She lives and breathes open relationships because she travels about a lot and isnt interested in a tethered partnership ( at least for now) She is also very adventurous when it comes to sexual activities and is always looking for new kicks. We had enjoyed a kink buddy internet relationship for about a year before she actually visited earlier this year. We had been sharing a lot of our sexual histories and fantasies prior to her visit. She found out she got a kick out of being an sph style dominitrix and although it hasnt happened yet she is well into being part of a voyeuristic cuckoldesque threesome with her another guy and me as the voy/cuck. We were going to try some other activities in that vein during this visit but unfortunately she suffered a bout of bronchitis and spent the last week she was actually in London mostly holed up in her hotel room. I generally get along with women very well and I have been extremely fortunate in crossing paths with a few that are sexually adventurous and compatible with my sph proclivities. It has been very beneficial for all concerned.

 

When I was much younger I was quite shy and due to a very kinky girlfriend I found myself in a few situations in which I was naked in front of three or fours other people. They were clothed and were kind, positive comments helped.

My girlfriend and I quickly realized that despite my embarrassment I became very aroused in these situations. So naturally more situations were set up.

 

In our case it isn’t humiliation as such but when our friend is fucking she will ask if I’m enjoying it. And before hand she always says something like “you know he’s going to be cumming in there soon, as you sure you want that? So I guess there is an element of that. She’s letting another man fuck her in front of me

 

Do you just sit there and watch when some other guy is screwing your wife, or do you jerk off or save yourself for sloppy seconds?
Maybe these questions are better off answered in a pm.

 

I cannot answer for others, and only for me from personal experiences. During our first MFM, it was an eye opening experience for me. There were times that the three of us were active together, and other times I would sit back and watch as she sucked and fucked him. my wife is quite multi orgasmic, but it was a bit humbling to see how easily and repetitively she came with him. Was he that much better, or just the fact that it’s a new cock? it was like I was putting myself through my own humiliation. I did not dare jerk off. I was saving myself for seconds or thirds. Same with our subsequent threesomes with him. The last time with him I was involved somewhat, but spent a lot of the time sitting back and watching. Again I did not dare touch myself. When he decided to take a bathroom break. I took the opportunity to get my slippery seconds. I’d be lying if I said I lasted a minute. When he returned from the bathroom, I took my break. When I got back in the room my wife was happily bouncing in his lap. She had another orgasm, and then he seriously fucked her to another one before coming in her again. Good times and great memories.

 

Good times is right!

 

I know what you mean about watching her enjoying another man. I felt much the same way, him having size advantage. Only thing I didn't like was being at an out-of-town party and several others knew. Then later when I was around her girlfriends, she had told them about having sex with a well-endowed guy.

 

One of my gfs had fucked another guy and her bestie knew it. She swore her friend to secrecy and told her she had only done it because I had a tiny penis and the guy she cheated with was rumoured to be a good lover with a big dick. She had a falling out with her bff because she also fucked another guy who her friend had a crush on.
Her not ex bff then ratted on her to me. Despite the fact my sph thing made it arousing I broke up with her because of the subterfuge.
Sometime down the road I forgave her and we didnt get back together but I confessed to her that in retrospect it was a turn on for me. She didnt really get the sph thing but appologized to me that her hormones had got the best of her.

 

That is one thing my girlfriend never encountered was more than she could handle. She was much more adventurous on our weekend getaways, being out of town and not worried about friends or family finding out. She thought about being with several men in one night, but I had seen a few gang bangs in high school and college days and I didn't want that, maybe a nice, controlled gangbang. Especially like you said free pussy, guys could treat the lady nice.
I liked hearing stories from our friends; I actually had more female friends relate stories to me not many men.

 

My new gf is into being humiliated. I realized this when I would call her names she loved it. Then she showed me sites where we could get ball gags, whips(she loves being spanked). Now I tie her up call her names, blow my load all over her face and leave it the, telling her that’s What a slut loves. She cums two to three times when we do This. My dream gal

 

My gf and I are both switches. When she feels submissive, she loves the name-calling, too, especially when she is sucking my cock.