Cock abuse and pain

Discussion in 'Beginners BDSM' started by Racer51, Jul 16, 2023.

  1. Romper

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    Who figs her, and which orifice is used?
     
  2. Scharff

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    Her husband figs her. Ass and pussy. Not with the same fig and not both all the time. Usually part of a spank or caning. Not all the time but often enough. She doesn't like it...in a good way.
     
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  3. straightma1e

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    Another way to endure pain and discomfort all the way to orgasm is to wrap your cock with the leaves of stinging nettles. The leaves, or rather the oil from the leaves, cause an itchy and burning rash on the cock that goes away within 12 hours. The cock can be so agitated that the owner might even cum from it, hands free.
     
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  4. Romper

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    I think it's time to pass on that one.
     
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  5. Jamie28London

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    I can assure you that you can get a similar feeling to figging when sounding by using some tingle lube on the sound. If you just want to enjoy the feeling of sounding without any stinging sensation thats even better. I sometimes use a tingle lube on my sound as it goes into my penis. Feels epic. I have never tried figging though, I had to google that one.
     
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    My wife and I also enjoy a little ball play. She likes to lightly spank and squeeze my balls. It's such a turn on.
     
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    We like that too - she knows just how hard to squeeze.
     
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    If you haven’t tried this I truly suggest giving it a go. I really like using a tight silicone cock ring around the whole package and have her blow/jerk me with intermittent light slaps to my penis and balls. Sometimes light teeth dragging.
     
  9. marinman2

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    I love it when my wife is rough with my balls. She knows just how hard to squeeze or slap them to get me super hard. Then she'll slap my hard cock as well. Sometimes she'll grab them when we're out on public and whisper in my ear "remember I own these." We've tried some light ball busting and I enjoy the submissive part of that.
     
  10. Very Kinkey

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    We do it often, it is great, bend over and take it from behind. 10 -20 hard slaps!!
     
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  11. KinMT

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    My wife has started to squeeze my balls, she alternates how hard and occasionally adds some pulling.
    She tells me if I want to cum I have go jerk myself off, so I do
    She squeezes harder and softer over and over and can make me cum just from that.
    The hard is to the point of pain but she then stops
     
  12. KinMT

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    Another way to endure pain and discomfort all the way to orgasm is to wrap your cock with the leaves of stinging nettles. The leaves, or rather the oil from the leaves, cause an itchy and burning rash on the cock that goes away within 12 hours. The cock can be so agitated that the owner might even cum from it, hands free.

    I did this a few times and your are right the feeling is so different hard to explain but I loved it.
     
  13. Samsjam

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    Had a good fwb who loved me to bite his cock while I blew him, it felt odd at first but I got used to it. I was suprised how hard he wanted his shaft bitten, and how it made him hard and cum quicker and harder.

    Another guy had to beat the hell out of his cock with one of those black thumping muscle massagers to be able to cum most times.
     
  14. Bony Tony

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    I've done sounding before. My comfortable diameter is 8mm, 9mm is VERY tight! I have managed 10" though and felt I could go further.
    I'm also into cock abuse and have been penis spanked by an ex headmaster. He didn't really want to do it but I promised him a swallowing blowjob, which I'd never previously done, and he was hooked!

    He arrived with various DIY implements including kitchen ware, paddles and a silicone strap.

    I was ordered to strip, thankfully, and go over his knees. He gave my backside a good workout with various odds & sods, and then came the time.... I had my penis (uncut & erect) on a table both with & without a cushion. I preferred with.... The silicone strap was definitely my choice but he'd also used a couple of kitchen stirrers. After a few strikes, I wanted my foreskin retracted and he obliged. As my shaft was turning purple with bruising he called an end to it and I now had to perform my side of the bargain. As he was quite small & not fully erect, it was easy for me..... I'd do that again!

    I've mostly given up CBT and, as my wife no longer wants sex, I have to self indulge. Today, at 80, I've masturbsted with stinging nettles..... That's fun! :)
     
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  15. Bony Tony

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    I did this yesterday using a tie wrap... Left it on an hour+ while I mowed the paddock, naked of course!
     
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    How many times have you used the nettles to masturbate? Do you get it on the head or just the shaft. I have thought of rubbing it on my balls but haven't summoned enough courage yet.
     
  17. Bony Tony

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    It takes a bit of courage to start with but definitely worth it! I've dine shaft, cock head, balls and anus..... Yesterday was the first for quite a while though!
     
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  18. Romper

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    You might try Tiger Balm. A girl was giving me head once. She paused, and unknown to me, she rubbed Tiger Balm on the head of my cock, balls and asshole. Wow! That woke me up.
     
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  19. Bony Tony

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    I loved in the Far East for a while and used Tiger Balm..... It's AWESOME!

    There were 2 grades, yellow and Red.... I can't recall which was the hottest but, you'd certainly know about it!

    I'm guessing end of BJ after application! :))
     

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