Other Side of a Sexless Marriage

Not to sound sexist, if you tell a woman yes all the time and you become to accommodating .... she'll lose respect for you and take you for granted , say no every once in a while .

 

My wife had a hysterectomy 20 years ago.Havent had sex since. No BJ,nothing. I am a Christian and never cheated. She has absolutely zero interest

 

:-( hoping that changes for you both!

 

So, why doesn't the converse apply, isn't that like her zero interest isn't cheating you? Think of how much turmoil around the world could be soothed if they had just 50% of the sex drive that we do at 50....

 

On a personal note, I myself, would have left.
She has a serious problem, not you.

 

Me too. Im a Christian too. Same scenario. Its really tough to stay faithful.

 

Don’t forget, there are girls like me out here wanting to help out as many of you as we can! I’ll be 30 soon…don’t know if I’ll make it to 50, but if I do, I hope I don’t lose any desire!

 

Lmao, I am single, and way older than you but I do love to jerk off to hearing about your adventures

 

I am in this situation exactly as described. My wife having gone through menopause has no sex drive at all. I don’t want to pester her for sex and have her cave into having sex knowing she doesn’t enjoy it anymore. It’s only fun when everyone is having fun. We don’t talk about how I satisfy my sexual appetite, she has said she doesn’t want to know. In her mind she can’t separate love and sex, it doesn’t make sense to her that I can have sex with someone without loving them.
She doesn’t know I am bisexual, and she doesn’t need to. It does however provide plenty of uncomplicated sexual opportunities.

 

Taking care of guys needs, one, two, even three at a time. I wish many more did that.

 

If they did though, it would make it more difficult to get so many willing partners!

 

Thre are a lot of guys put there, a lot of unused cocks. You'd aleays have as much as you can handle, and that's a surprising amount.

 

My last fuck buddy was 62 and fucking me like a teenager before we had to part ways. Her GF was in her late 50's when joining us a few times for fun. She and I even had fun by ourselves a couple of times. So I think you might have a chance to keep fucking well after 50. Not many women do as it has been reported half discontinue sexual activities once they reach that age.

 

It was a relief for my wife when she could stop pretending to enjoy anything sexual. Whether is was mutual sex or her just taking care of me, it was all work for her and it got to be very contentious. When we finally talked about me seeing our neighbor, who had always expressed interest, she was happy. Rules though.....1) Don't bring anything home. Not a partner and not a disease. 2) Don't do anything in public that would embarrass her such as taking someone out to a local restaurant and having friends / neighbors start to talk. 3) Don't get anyone pregnant.

That worked for us and it still does.

 

I tried to have sex with my wife almost every day/night we were together. I got lucky about twice a week. We had a healthy sex life but I needed more. So, about three times a week, before she got in the shower, she'd get on her knees and I'd rub one out on her tits or face.

 

In many ways we have a good marriage. Good income, compatable, good friends, not too many bad habits, grown kids, etc. However, my wife has done everything she can to kill off sex and romance. Both are very important to me, but she has no desire to be understanding or even take into account my needs. So when I die and she reads my will she is going to be in for a big surprise.

 

:-(

 

Oh my. That's a bit harsh. Have you simply asked her to help you out?

 

:-0

 

Most women think a man doesn't need to get off as frequently as he does. All men a different. Some need to bust a nut once a week and some need to do it multiple times a day. Not ejaculating frequently enough does cause stress, irritability, discomfort and unhappiness. Women who don't provide their partners with enough sex are physically and mentally making their partners miserable. I have only been in one long term relationship in which my needs were fulfilled. It was in college and lasted about a year.