Evolving attitude towards desire for her nudity

When we married decades ago. I thought it was great that she was a virgin since I was also. I tried most things sort of intercourse with other girls….but not the one that was to become my wife. She wouldn’t even allow boobs to be fondled.

Sex for many years lacked the frequency or variety I needed. There were years where it happened once per month. Between work, kids and some prudish attitudes my wife had (has?) towards sex….my sex life left a lot to desire.

As a result, I turned to porn (written and video) and JO daily. I remember getting aroused by stories and videos of women getting naked on beaches. But I thought “I would never want others to see wife’s tits and DEFINITELY not that pussy that I waited so long to see! That view is for me alone. Why would husbands allow others to see their wife’s most intimate parts of her body?”

After more years passed, my attitude changed. I started to fantasize about her being naked with the possiblity of her being seen. Then it progressed to us actually going to some nude beaches and one club. I don’t think I fully understand it, but my wife’s naked body being viewed by nude men is now extremely erotic for me. I can hardly wait for the next time her body….especially her pussy is exposed for men to see.

I believe the official term is candaulism.

Has anyone else experienced a change in attitude like mine?
Any ideas as to how this change takes places?
Any stories/experiences you can relay?

 

I wanted other men to not only see my wife naked, but also fuck her. I got my wish when we were both in our late 20s. I had several men (a couple friends and several complete strangers) see her naked, and had one friend fuck her frequently for over half a year! It was everything that I'd hoped for. Whats more, once my friend started fucking her on a regular basis, she really got into it and couldn't wait for the next time she'd feel him cumming in her!

 

For my wife and I, Full home nudity started after we retired. Then we progressed to (Lifestyle) resorts. Best thing we have ever done for ourselves. My wife is a very confident woman and loves being nude and is usually the first one undressed when we are with friends Doesn’t bother me at all that our life style friends touch and play with her. We are long past being jealous. We have one couple that we see about once a month for some nude hot tub fun and bedroom play. We certainly for evolved in a good way.

 

Yes I feel same way

 

I'm not sure how this change takes place but for us, it just evolved over the years. I didn't know for many years that my husband wanted to show me off and see me with other men until he finally told me. I think it's something that happens when there is a lot of trust.

 

Can we start a private conversation?

 

Yes

 

I don’t know how to do it.

 

Check your inbox

 

If anyone wants to show me pics, I’d be ok with that

 

Yes

 

I'm a nudist/naturist. My spouse? Not so much. There are rare times she might join me. Otherwise she always has some clothing of some sort on. I never really cared if she was seen nude by anyone, male or female. Never cared if she had sex with other men either. She did a few times in our marriage. It didn't bother me and I didn't get off on it. But back to candaulism, she expressed that at one time she liked me being nude with the chance of being seen publicly. That fetish has faded from her mind though. I have been seen a few times and we have had sex in public too. Never had any issues except once when a male Karen called the police and had a fit over my nature walk while nude.

 

I basically evolved from a type A best not mess with mine..into a "hey whatever".without any kind jealousy.Not from any change in love, in fact prolly moreso and different. Don't get me wrong, My hidden fantasy was always involving someone seducing then girlfriend, eventually.. wife. Once I got rea;lized it's "*OK* to enjoy the idea of others enjoying her pcs, vids, body..its was liberating. Then we had "the talk", and it took her time to realize I wasn't chasing tail for myself, and that I wasn't gaming her..she got more comfortable. Now don't get me wrong, its not easy undoing years of repressive society norms. Heck why would you if it worked, yet I couldn't deny the fact I got off on others seeing her..and mebbe more. Started asking who she thot was among the friends, we started watching some cuck type and bbc vids together so she could get a feel for it. She has tacit approval..not that she needed it.. to explore ANYTHING or anyone that gives her the slightest itch in her sexuality. only rule is total non judgemental honesty. AFa as nudes/vids that's how I encouraged my buds..and coworkers. yep she knows they've seen hers.Its SO hot when they realize they're seeing pics of my wife...and the vibes between them when they interact with her day to day. They know I encourage her towards that end and I don't even have to be there when they visit, altho it can be fun as well.. Personally I think, the more the merrier. She gets a tuneup whenever she needs one without the fear of repercussions. candaulism..see her nudes? HOT.. the fact she knows? better..cuckold? its an umbrella that includes alot of differing behaviors. Mine is simply I like eveybody to get what they need. its a win win win

 

While I wouldn’t want my friends to fuck her….it would be so hot to meet them at a beach or club when she’s nude!

The two events that had any similarity to my dream scenario are:
1) we were at a resort that had a separate nude mandatory section on the beach. Before going to that area, we spent some time the first day in the textile area and met a nice couple. The next day, the other couple was walking to the nude area with us. It was the best part of the day to get to watch the two women pull their sundresses overhead to reveal tits and pussy. I saw my wife’s eyes dart over to check out the husband’s cock. It was pretty surreal to make these vacay friends in a normal textile setting and then the next day see all strip down. Gets me going wherever I think about it.
2) we were in a nearby store and the clerk kept saying he thought he knew us from somewhere. He took a couple guesses but it didn’t match up. Later, almost at random, he brought up visiting a nudist club that’s about an hour away. We’ve been there twice. It was great knowing that he undoubtedly had seen my wife naked. My wife as we were driving home said she knows he saw us at the club. I asked if my normally prudish wife wants to avoid that shop in the future…she said there’s no need for that. My goal for the summer is another visit to that shop and latter to the club.

 

My wife is very straight laced. Not into nudity but doesn't care if I do it,and will even notice when I have clothes on (which isn't very often unless I am working) and comment on it. But she knows that I am very much into the idea of her going around naked and eventually go to a nudist resort. But probably won't happen. But she knows that if she ever changes her mind I am there for support. It isn't a sexual thing for me (at least I don't think so), I am just at the point where I realize that being naked is very enjoyable. And if she ever was willing to try it she might like it. But again might not.

We are in our 60's and neither of us look like we did 38+ years ago when we got married, but she looks great to me. And my own attitude to nudity and self evaluation changed a ton after i started going naked most of the time.