Am I???

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by Victorious, Jul 6, 2025.

  1. Victorious

    Victorious Supporters HipForums Supporter

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    I have been with women all my 60 plus years of life. Being curious I wanted to experience oral with a man. I got the chance to try and it made me more curious to continue having oral sex with men and possibly be penetrated by a guy. Does this make me bisexual or possibly gay????? I still love women and can truly appreciate all their beauty and grace.
     
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  2. SantaCruzRob

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    Don’t worry about labels.

    Did you enjoy it? Find joy in life, perhaps that is the meaning of it.

     
  3. Oldernow

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    Probably bi nothing wrong with it I love it , sex with a guy is very sexual and primal. Very free to no hang ups and guys will be open to try more things than most women. Try it and enjoy it
     
  4. Bony Tony

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    You're probably more like me...... Definitely not gay, but I dont have a problem if a guy fancies his chances with me! I've been wanked, sucked & occasionally fucked. I've wanked & sucked back and been in the middle of an MMM 3sum....

    I guess mine started as a young teen when I was shown how to wank by another, with 6 more watching on by torchlight! That def started me on the exhibitionist route.... I am a voyeur too though, and have developed a bit of a fetish for cock & ball torture.

    All that said, I'm still mainly straight.
     
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  5. soulpoker

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    Congratulations! You have discovered you like guys. You said you're curious about continuing doing stuff with them, so go for it. And you still like girls, so go for that too!
    I guess technically that's bisexuality. Try it out and see how it suits you. You might love it. You might hate it. But it's got you thinking about continuing so my guess is you like it enough to do it.
     
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  6. GregS

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    I am definitely bi when it comes to sex. I enjoy sex with my wife and my male friend. With him it's only sex. We like each other but there is no romance such as kissing and cuddling. We each get that from our wives. Just enjoy it and don't worry about labels.
     
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  7. Bony Tony

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    I'm not into kissing guys either. It does nothing for me.... It's the sexual contact I'm after!
     
  8. Si69

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    Kissing is a significant part of sex in my book!

    Simon :)
     
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  9. thesantos29

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    Your sexual desires simply make you human.
     
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  10. Desiplayer

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    I am 33 married with young family …,in my mid twenties I discovered being bi/gay…I love my wife and women in general but I also enjoy mm sex …,now I’m more gay as i have active relationships with few and I’m in love relationships with one…,
    Earlier I had lot of mental health issues related to my identity…,but I’m over it …I have wife who supports…
    Nothing wrong being bi or gay or bi/gay ….
    Enjoy sex and being with both gender and not worry about labels
     
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  11. Edog69

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    that makes you bi sexual,and thats nothing wrong with that. it makes you happy,makes him happy, its all good. don't worry be happy!!!!
     
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  12. RisingBi

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    Women are beautiful! I can certainly appreciate how attractive many of them are, and very desirable. But there is something very powerful in the connection two guys can have together. Most guys love their own cock tremendously, so it's very natural to love cocks of other guys. The erect cock is incredibly beautiful, and that power and virality it stands for is very desirable. So, @Victorious, it's only natural you want to take it into your mouth and perhaps deep inside your ass, to feel that male power, and to consume it. It's not only normal, but it is 100% natural. The thing about guys is that when they are sucking another guy's cock, they actually experience more pleasure than he does, and believe you me, he is experiencing out of this world pleasure already, in particular because it's another man's mouth and throat that is sucking him. That is exciting! I'm sure that's exactly what you experienced in the cocksucking you have engaged in already.

    But anal penetration is a whole other universe, and getting your ass fucked, or you fucking another man's ass, is pleasure like you can't imagine, and a feeling of connectedness to another person that is almost spiritual. At least that has been my experience. The first time I experienced it, having sexual intercourse with another man, finally allowed me to not only accept that I was bisexual without a doubt, but that I loved and was very proud of the gay side of my bisexuality. I no longer had any shame about it. You can't be ashamed of a truth. And you are part of an ever growing group of tens if not hundreds of millions of other men. And even though I've been exclusive with men only for the last six years, and identify now as gay, my desire for women and feeling attracted to them is still there. So I'm a mostly gay bisexual man, not that I have to give myself a label at all. Look, I just love having sex with other guys. They are awesome!

    If you are single, then I highly recommend you return to exploring these continuing desires you're having: you'll never regret it. If you're married or have a female partner, then you're going to need to have a conversation with her about these desires you have, however difficult that may be. Or you can just keep the desires as a fantasy and memory only, and accept that you have bisexual feelings: there's nothing wrong with that, and actually something to rejoice in. Same sex desire is natural and beautiful, and makes total sense (whether you're a man, or a woman, experiencing them).
     
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  13. Windman

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    You’re a man that likes sex. Trying to put a label on it serves no purpose for you. I am a married man who unbeknownst to my wife likes sex with men too. It works for everyone, I am not pestering my wife for sex she doesn’t want. I get sexually satisfied. And the man I’m with has the time of his life. Why complicate it further than that?
     
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