If you had to choose: mutual J/O v. sex?

If you could only enjoy one sexual activity for the rest of your life, would you opt for the ability to have intercourse or masturbate with another person? Those are the only options. You couldn't choose one but still have oral sex or get fingered/handjob. If you're a lesbian: No siscorring. If you're straight, no anal sex.

And it would be the only type of sex you could enjoy in anyway. Whichever you choose, that would be the only thing you could watch in porn. The only kind of sexy stories you could hear and sexually charged convos you could have with others. It would be your only sexual outlet for the rest of your life.

I wouldn't need even a second to consider it: Mutual masturbation. Hands down.

 

That’s a tough one because I enjoy both equally.

 

That is a tough one. My wife is a super good fuck but so are my hands.

 

WOW! How glad am I that I don’t have to choose

 

Both are a part of my life, and luckily I don’t have to choose at this time.

 

Intercourse; I can jerk myself off but it's a damned good thing I don't really have to choose.

 

I don't need more than a second to decide. I would definitely choose vaginal intercourse. Nobody knows how to stroke my cock better than I do. Handjobs are nice, but my last resort as far as sex with another person. On the other hand, to me nothing feels as wonderful as sliding my cock into a warm, moist pussy and feeling her vaginal walls massage and milk my cock for every drop of cum!!!

 

Yep. But mutual wins out by a hair for me. But still wins. I guess it ironically feels so much intimate to me. Like intimate as in vulnerable, which to me is the most important part of sex. The inherent freedom of denying the nagging sense of vulnerability and truly let another person see you be the you that you are while alone. The whole "dancing like no one is watching" effect.

 

Intercourse. The intamacy of fucking my wife is an amazing turn-on for us. I love looking into her face as I enter her. Nothing feels as good as being in her tight warm wet loving pussy. It's funny because for how much I love fucking, it is not my favorite porn. In fact I don't watch or read about it at all.

 

"Nothing feels as good as being in her tight warm wet loving pussy." Isn't this the truth. It's a great reply.

 

Intercourse better

 

oral

 

I’ll take the sex. I just love pussy

 

When younger, I would have chose vaginal hands down without a moment of thought. No competition.
As I have aged, that changes. Not like I don't like sex, but issues happen. I don't have the stamina I once did. Taking 100mg of Atenolol a day does not allow my heart to beat very fast, so I get out of breath too easy. I do not have ED, thankfully, but he tends to go down fairly quickly without stimulation. So switching positions can require a moment to get him back up. Ageing sucks. And because of that, mutual masturbation likely wins. With the caveat that mutual masturbation does not mean we do each other - it means doing it yourself - together.