As a married man, Its been over 10 years that I decides to try to bottom for the first time. At that time I only wanted to get fucked and see how it felt. I found a guy with a bbc that fucked me very agresively and was very dominant. After that I develop a taste for bbc and not only that, I realize that I like to Crossdrress and get fucked hard. It seems that I like to be a sissy in bed and the hardest I get fuck the more I enjoy it.
Very hot, I’m bi and love to be submissive when im getting fucked. Never dressed up yet but you never know. It’s fun to please the guy your with be his sex toy
I tend to give far more blow jobs than I get and I am happy. I only receive anal so I am submissive. I haven’t cross dressed not as a lifestyle. Once for Halloween my wife dressed me up, but tequila was involved.
Blowjobs involved with the men I frequent are looked forward too. A good cock sucker is one to become friends with and I have made many friends over the years.
There's also a deep need inside of myself, that I've recognized, to submit to another man and give him my ass to use as he wishes. So far I've only topped with other guys, and I'm very very passionate about it, though not dominant or aggressive. That's not in me. But I think the submissive me who desperately wants to feel another man's cock deep in my ass, pounding and breeding my ass, giving me his male essence, is begging to come out and be free. That's why in all my online profiles I have included that I'm also searching for that special man to take my bottom virginity. It has to be a special guy for the first time, someone whom I've struck up a friendship with, whom I like, so that's taking a lot longer. There's one guy who would be so perfect, and who wants to be that man for me, but he is married (to a guy) and my morals won't allow me. But whoever he ends up being, I can't wait!
I became more curious and at 59 allowed another husband to have my anal virginity but he wasn’t gentle at all and I had to quit after a minute or two. I then went and got a gay massage and asked the masseuse to do the same, but he also just began to heave it in and out and I didn’t last long then. I used a ton of lube, but don’t understand what I’m doing wrong as it does feel great!
Some guys just don't know how to fuck someone's ass. If you're doing something wrong, it's probably getting the wrong guy to fuck you or, um, maybe you should ask them to take it easy until you can get used to them. I know that I would and have but "submissive bottom," to some guys, means "bang his ass as fast and as hard as you can and if it hurts him, good and too bad as long as I bust a nut in him." Unless having your backside abused is part of the fun and excitement for you - and I'm guessing that this isn't the case.
Let me just say that having a passionate guy take me for the first time would be a beautiful time for you to indulge your submissive side and let me be your passionate first!!
I like be a submissive bottom to guys and remind my FBs that I'm there to be used as they wish. I like to remain open to trying different things and pushing my limits, as long as it's safe and sane. The guys I play with are respectful so I'm comfortable in surrending to them. Haven't cross dressed, but open to it if that's what my top would like.
definitely a submissive bottom here. It doesn't mean I want to be abused. it means I allow him to take control and lead. It does not mean that he is going to do something I don't like. I think I've been lucky enough to never get with a real maniac rapist. I've heard stories. A friend of mine had a very bad situation happen to him. I discovered some things I enjoy that push the boundaries a little bit. But, I've also had a few incidents when someone began to cross the line of what I won't do - I stopped it. He was not happy, but he did stop. And the party was over. I didn't really want the party to end - but it killed his buzz - and That's OK, too. Respect for your partner is important.
Yes, have and show respect for the person you are having sex with. I've been so lucky to have known a group of guys (5) that I have opened my ass too many times in a fantastic group setting. All six of us love to suck cock, but only two of us are bottoms and love how they all make our anal experiences fantastic one's.
