I write erotic stories and poems for three married women. They were previous partners of mine who ended up moving away. I write these poems/stories with me as their sex partner-yes they love me as a lover…I have even had phone sex with them
I have never spoken to anyone about my sexual interests, exploits or kinks. I got laid a lot in high school and college and never discussed any of the details with my friends. Even as an older gent I have never discussed sexual relations that I have had with my friends. I'm 60. I was in a monogamous relationship for 25 years (until I was 50) and have fucked everything i could since. It is nice to have a place to talk about it anonymously. I shared a little with my wife and got the occasional footjob, assjob and blowjob and spewed on her ass, tits and face but we never really scratched the surface. I like being able to speak freely about my wants and desires and I find that I'm not alone. I'm not a perv. I'm "Normal."
Yes 'normal' is all relative! This is the 3rd sex forum that I've been on and I love to be able express myself in every way that I want to. And I also like to read other people expressing themselves too. It can even be therapeutic for some of us sometimes.
I like PMs, talking about shared interest - pics if they want etc. It is way-way better than boring/fake porn. I doubt I look at porn more than once a month. Much-much rather have interaction with real people. My wife does know, and has no issue. She is post menopause and knows I need an outlet.