Just curious how our bodies are feeling as they grow older. How is your body changing? Your penis and your abilities? I know that my body is definitely starting to show his age and my penis is definitely showing his age as well in his appearance. He’s still functioning well though! How about you guys? Please share about yourself as I genuinely want to know!
I'm 73 about 5 years ago no longer got rock hard. Wife's desires slowed down a couple of years ago. She doesn't refuse sex, but I can tell she doesn't enjoy. Due to this I don't use my penis that much, and lack of use seems to make things worse. Kinda like if you don't use it, you lose it. We have always been open, and she has even told me she has a couple of widow friends who would love me helping them out. They don't really appeal to me. The one younger lady late 50s I have thought about, but don't know if I could please her. I still remember being about 8 inches and thick, Wife liked hanging wet wash cloth on me in shower and still sticking out. Now in semi hard it hangs down and limber. I'm happy letting father time take its course. If the right female came along, I would use my oral skills and please her.
Jimandjan, I’m not far behind you in age. (71) That said, Age can be a bitch, if you let it. Sure, my penis doesn’t point up like a flag pole anymore, but it still functions properly. My issue is more of stamina. I can get rigid and erect at will, but I find myself getting exhausted quickly and don’t always cum. In other words, I tire out before I cum. That’s why I always, always make sure my wife gets a good orgasm before.
I still get hard-ons regularly often several times a day, but like many men they are more horizontal when I'm stood up than vertical these days, but my other half doesn't seem to mind and I still masturbate regularly along side full intercourse
It's hell getting old, but better than the alternative. I just remember when she loved sex, but now she just can't get enough lube, but I enjoy cuddling and all else.
Just my opinion but you should try to use your penis as often as possible to help keep him working well for you! I make sure to get mine to a full erection at least a couple of times a day and try to ejaculate at least every couple of days to exercise him and keep him happy
Time has for sure played hell on me. And various health issues. Wife isn't sexual at all anymore so any use now is self satisfaction. And I can thanks little pill to help in those sessions.
It's been five and a half years since my wife and I have actually fucked and I miss it terribly. It's not because of any reluctance on her part, but rather my extreme ED and a number of other health issues. We still pet each other to orgasm on a regular basis, but it's just not the same (as most of you know.) Pharmacological assistance stopped working for me a long time ago. (I neglected to mention that my wife and I are both in our late 60s.)
At 60 my cock still gets rock hard but it might take a little while and some sexy stimulation. When I am at full staff, it is thinner and shorter than it used to be but, still plenty capable if getting the job done. My orgasms are at least as intense as they were when I was younger...maybe more.
Well, I just turned 79. My erect dick is a out a half inch shorter (now 6 1/4") and not quite as firm as when a bit younger. It is fully and frequently functioning. As I have aged gravity has increased the length of my flaccid dick to 5-6". My balls now hang quite bit lower as well. I have nice firm morning wood virtually every morning. My wife is fully functioning as well. We have vaginal and/or oral sex 3-4 times a week. Perhaps our functionality is assisted by our fitness levels. We exercise vigorously daily and carry very little excess fat...except for my petite wife's nice c ups. We also seldom wear clothes...that helps!
I'm 66. Testicular atrophy; they're smaller and much softer than they used to be, and don't produce enough testosterone; I inject T once a week (no small feat with lots of tremor in my hands). Even with testosterone supplements, erections are unreliable (NEVER WASTE A HARD-ON!). Unfortunately, sex drive doesn't necessarily correlate to ED.
I am 60 Still starting the engine everyday to keep things going. I am always trying to keep the wife going. I know eventually things might fade further. But I am going to fight it constantly.
60 - can get a hard on at the drop of a hat. However it needs stimulation to stay up. If I stop masturbating or having sex, within a moment it starts to "deflate" - but thank God, it will fire right back up when stimulated again.
What you said is so true, I know I'll never be like I was when younger. My wife doesn't refuse sex but I remember when she loved sex with me and other men.
Ageing just simply sucks. It takes a lot of getting use to and acceptance of what is. For women it is harder than men to accept their appearance, it's not that men don't care - we do, but not to the extent women do. For men - we want the sex we once had, or any at all. And it pretty much drives us crazy.
Reading the preceding makes me grateful for my good fortune. I'm 86 and often awake with a full erection. I have relations the 2-3 times each week my girlfriend (odd term as she is 75) visits. Is this foolproof? Not sure because I take generic Cialis before we get busy. But there have been 6 instances in the last three years when I forgot (measurable by the pill still in the dispenser) and neither of us could detect a difference. For me a hard on is mental rather than physical. I can massage, stroke, perform orally without a full erection. Kissing helps but guaranteed stiffy comes with the fantasy of others watching. I will start the ball rolling by setting the scene. "We are in a group of four couples" lays the groundwork. Each night there i a variation. We can fantasize the others are seated by the bed watching us take our turn or that she has been with three others before our present coupling. Last week I told her that it was just us and another couple. We've just spent an hour drinking and chatting on the deck and now we are in separate bedrooms, warming up our partners for an exchange. I'll make slow non-penetrative love while filling out the outline of the other couple with whom we are sharing the evening. Richard is a dentist. Carol is an attorney. They are attractive more for their personalities than appearance. We enjoyed the time chatting on the deck. After about 10 minutes I'll tell her the time has come to exchange partners. With her lying naked on the bed, I'll leave the room, ostensibly to join Carol. The only light in the room is a candle. I'll let 3-4 minutes pass, then enter the room as Richard. Yes, she is ready! She'll make love with Richard for half an hour (no prearranged set time is set) with him giving her several orgasms. Finally the husbands return to their wives. I have her tell me the details of her time with Richard and she asks me about Carol. She added that while Richard was fucking her, she was envisioning Carol sucking my dick. With this imaginary groundwork laid, I come violently and she responds in kind. (Yes, she is multi-orgasmic, incredibly so, but that is another story. Fantasies change from session to session with never the same cast and never based on anyone we know. Sometimes it is another couple, sometimes the previously mentioned group of four couples, sometimes the plot is that she has just finished fucking half a dozen guys at a party and now, as I reclaim her, she is telling me what it was like, not knowing who they were and not caring.....Getting back to the original issue, yep, I can get a hard on but the imaginal background is important.
Not boasting. No! But a good partner (In my case, my wife) is what keeps men sexually active. Yes age can kick your ass, but it’s not the end of an otherwise good sex life. We have changed our thinking of monogamy. In the last five years we have included others into our bedroom. I haven’t had any complaints from the ladies. Sometimes, I don’t always cum, but they are OK with that too, as long as they get their orgasms. Sometimes you have to reinvent your “A” game.
At 66 my cock has shrunk from 7” to 6” on a good hard day. It’s still functional but it’s not the steel pipe it used to be. It gets hard enough to be useful. I also don’t cum as quickly. The journey getting there is more fun these days.