How has sex changed for you and your significant other after 50

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not so much after 50 - more around 65 ish - just not as flexible , less often, more experimental in the early part of relationship

 

Ours has certainly changed and for the better. We have always made sex a priority in our relationship. But after fifty it zoomed upward. We had always talked openly regarding sex. No sex subject was taboo. We also did mutual masturbation together often. Before fifty, it was mostly fantasy with great sex.
Now, it’s greater sex, more often and we are living our sex life to the fullest. We love the lifestyle of including others into our bed. We travel to nude places and meet amazing couples.
To the point… There is a time and place for everything. Don’t let those times pass you by.

 

Sex with my spouse literally came to a halt. She has been dealing with medical issues for a long time now. For her sex isn't a priority. Myself, I still love having sex. Discussions into this dilemma with my spouse have led to me having sex partners outside our marriage. I do it discretely per her request. It's opened up my sex life. I'm having as good a time sexually as I did when I was younger all too many years ago.

 

For the first 30+ years of our marriage, we had a great sex life. The wife was always horny and DTF, we even did the lifestyle for a few years and she discovered that she also enjoys being with women. But due to her various health issues and the medication she takes, her sex drive has decreased on the order of 98-99% , not an easy thing to deal with......

 

Medical issues are horrible to deal with. Growing older is not for the feint of heart.

 

:-( …so sorry for you both!

 

Very true....

 

Ground to a halt in my late 40s.

 

No it's not and believe me, if you have a partner or fb that you enjoy being with and they enjoy being with you......be thankful, no one knows what the future holds...

 

Ah, contraire my friend. The future holds the end. At some point ones sex life will end. So will their mental life and physical life. There are three things people must do in life. Be born, die, and pay taxes. So as long as that is what the future holds make the most of the present until the future comes along.

 

Well obviously, we will all leave this life at some point, that's a given. My point was appreciate what you have and don't take it for granted

 

Mine has definitely changed. With my wife it's not as often and less vigorous. I'm 73 and she's 67. We still have sex about twice a week and it's still enjoyable. She did however turn me on to sex with a man. It started when she would use her finger on me while giving me oral. It progressed to a dildo. She told me I should try a real cock as the real thing is so much better. I tried it and it's good. I now have sex with my friend at least once a week. Wife is fine with it but doesn't want to be there.

 

Seems like it is a common theme. Less sex, or less vigorous sex later in years. My wife and I are in our 60's now and the style has definitely changed. We still enjoy it, but as with others her health has declined and can't (or isn't into it) as much. But we make do with what we have. As for additional partners, she knows I would be up for either an FFM or FMM, but I wouldn't ever think to go outside the relationship. She would need to be there. But she has relations that tried that (threesome) and it ended badly. So it is just a fantasy for me.

 

Internet forum version - our sex live is amazing! Better than ever! My wife loves cum and my cock!

Real life version - she is 5 years post menopause, drive is zero. I am left to my own devises. Cause that is reality.

 

My wife and I did not get together until our late 30s. I thought I had found my sexual soul mate. The best sex I had ever had, And a lot of variations. Then age and menopause arrived. We went from full throttle to idle. The Mrs. put on a ton of weight, And I just was not interested. She put the effort in to get back to Her dating figure. Sure I am interested again, but she is not. Frustrating. When I walk behind her, I will still give her ass A nice smack. She’ll just grin and that’s the end of that’s the end of that. We are in our 60s now, and it will be a miracle if we ever have sex again.

 

Lovnflman, I really hate to hear that! Sex, Orgasms and Ejaculation have such a powerful health benefit.
My wife and I love each other very much. We have intimate sex, but most of the time it’s for our health. She needs to orgasm often (2-3 times weekly) and she knows I need to ejaculate regularly for my prostate health.