This one is for the women. I recently was going down on my wife and wandered into her back region. She is very vanilla and doesn't orgasm from oral alone, and I've never ventured there before, but as I worked all around, and kept "slipping" my tongue around her butthole, she never said a word, but didn't stop me either. She was laying on her side, leg propped up on a pillow, with me behind her, is there any way she couldn't have noticed my tongue licking there? I was waiting for her to complain, but she never did, and I repeatedly licked around her (showered and clean) hole. It was such a turn on for me, but at the same time I was very nervous about her reaction (that never happened).
I've been trying to get my tongue into my wife's' bum, for 3 years now! She absolutely LOVES when I massage her there...I've worked up to the flat, front part of my finger, almost in her. Not to be mistaken for a joint of my finger...but have thoroughly massaged her opening to a whole 'nuther realm of sexual pleasure! I can absolutely tell she'd cum her brains out if she'd let me IN! I do this in conjunction with cunnilingus that's on another level. I'll keep trying...perhaps one of these days, eh?
I have rimmed my wife’s hole the first time, we were in a hot tub and drinking so things were going in the right direction, she wanted me to do her from behind so she was on all fours. I was kissing her back and as I slid her bottoms off just decided I’m going to try something new. So I started rimming her and first she was like hey, but then was like oh this is nice. So I kept going and even slid my tongue in her hole. She became so wet so I started rubbing her clit while I tongued her ass. It was so good she had three orgasms once I was inside her before I blew. Afterward she said that was unexpected but I really liked it.
My wife is only into it when she's really drunk.. then she's all about the back door! Often she'll rim me when she's blowing me, fingering me, or generally having her way with me.
My wife also is very vanilla. But over the years she has come around. I can now use the tip of my finger on her anus while eating her out and she enjoys it. I told her I wanted to lick her asshole but she said she didn't want that. But based on how she reacted to my finger I thinkshe would enjoy it. Maybe one time while down there after taking care of her muff I will try her asshole. See how she reacts.
That is a good slogan, but you need to proceed with caution. Some women love it, others not so much. My ex-wife was part of the latter. I could go down on her until the sun came up, but the first time my tongue got anywhere near her butt. She tensed up and pushed my head away! “what are you doing?” So I never revisited that area with my mouth. We did try anal a couple times, but any back door fun just wasn’t her cup of tea. So I avoided that area like the plague. With others, the initial Reaction seem to be that they could not believe I was doing that. The taboo nature? Once they relaxed they really enjoyed it. Initially, my current wife was pretty vanilla. Great sex, but strictly by the book. so one night while going down on her, I went farther south. She initially tensed up, but I did not relent. Started with just the flat of my tongue, and progressed To pushing my tongue inside as far as I could. She loved it, To the point that subsequent times when I was going down on her, she would say “lower“! With pleasure! Not long after she was giving me one of her excellent BJs and ball lickings…… And she went to my back door. OMG! I LOVED IT! It became a regular part of our love making, And led to a lot more “butt fun” for both of us. Her orgasms from anal were out of this world, And I loved being pegged. The back door is such a highly ignored Erogenous zone. Taboo To some, but not us. Good luck to all on this endeavor.
On the topic of the anus being an erogenous zone, being that I am in my 60's now and the penis just isn't as sensitive as it used to be on it's own, I have found that when my wife is taking care of me down there if I am not responding, she learned that if she starts playing with my hole the lack of sensation that I feel in my penis quickly goes away and man oh man does that change things. As for my wife herself, I have been going down on her and would lick my finger and put it slightly info her anus and she starts to squirm even more. Sometimes I am going to town on her with my tongue, and then put one finger into her pussy, and another into her anus. The trifecta that always works. She still hasn't let me tongue her in her anus, but give me time. Maybe I will get lucky.
