I've had homosexual dreams now and again for about 6 years now (since about the age of 14). Averaged at about once a week. I'm straight, with a beautiful girlfriend. I do appreciate the beauty in both men and women, but would not consider myself gay. What could this mean? :biker:
Maybe your dreams were or if you are still having them are telling you to explore your possible bi sexual side that's been waiting and telling you to break free and just go for it with another guy that turns you on and then after you have tasted the otherside see how you feel then and see if your dreams were telling you that maybe your bi sexual like many of us married guys with beautiful wives. Good luck should you choose to explore, I have and I loved every minute of it.
First, it's pretty normal for a straight guy to have homosexual dreams; next, don't read a whole lot into those dreams other than this is something your mind is doing and it doesn't mean anything other than you were dreaming. A lot of guys have these dreams and take them to mean that they might be gay or otherwise interested in men - but only they know if they really are and, honestly, if you were, you'd know it. I've known guys to have these dreams and take them to mean that they need to have sex with a guy... and it turned out to be a disaster for them. You can just accept that you were dreaming and nothing more than that... or spend some time wondering about your sexuality and probably stressing yourself out.
Dreams are dreams, it does not mean you might be gay it may just mean you are comfortable in your own sexuality that you are not closed minded or have bias to one gender. You can find men attractive, that does not mean you’re gay, just means you appreciate it and are observant. Don’t dwell on it and live your life, there is nothing wrong with you.
Before I married my wife at 23 I had been with both men and women. Been faithful ever since. But I also have dreams of sex with men, and usually I am giving him a blowjob and I can feel my mouth going up and down on the shaft. But I also have dreams of having se with my sister as she gives me a blow job. Dreams are weird. Never know what to make of them.