Anybody else feeling more gay as you get older?

any transient consensual sex with another guy (or lady) should be a mutually pleasurable activity of satisfactory duration.

now.. if the other guy put Super Glue on his lips or cock, that might become a relationship requiring intervention..

 

I began fantasizing about men only about 15 or so years ago. I’m 59 now.

I pretty much only watch gay and cuckold porn. I’ve been with 20 men since. I love pleasing men sexually I don’t find men attractive. Unless they are nude with a hard cock.

About 3 years ago I convinced my my wife to try being a hotwife. She does it now regularly.
If I were single again I would absolutely be exclusive to men.

 

As I get older I don't want just a hook up but someone regular, maybe to live with. Someone like my two teenage bfs, who I can suck and pleasure or take them in my ass when ever they are horny and want to cum. To fulfill their every sexual want where I can avoid the drama and problems fussy brings, and be naked and getting lots of cock & cum.

When younger was more into you do/ make me then I'll do/make you. Now it's more wanting to be the bottom, F, sub and take cock & cum for the other's pleasure . Others?

 

More open minded, for sure

 

I have definitely gotten more curious as I have gotten older .Especially living in a dead bedroom home. I am just not sure how I would react if the situation ever arose.

 

watch some gay porn
read gay erotica
if you don't get nauseated (and especially if you get hard/horny), you'll do alright if/when there's an opportunity to experiment..

I used to enjoy MM (MMM+) a lot
then marriage and strictly straight..

but.. urges strengthen, resistance weakens..

 

That is the problem when you have a partner even if you have no sex. What to do when your resistance weakens? Where to find healthy discrete likeminded individuals. I am sure it would be fun to experiment.

 

Love it!

 

Not gay, but more bisexual?
I have gone up by 0.5 to 1.0 higher on the Kinsey scale.

Told a few close friends 3 years ago. And a therapist, and my doctor. Also went to a bi group meeting in a gay bar! Seeking out bi friends who know who I am. This was unthinkable to me ten years ago!

I'm getting tired of the paranoid secrecy. Getting older makes me care less and less what others think! LoL!

 

As we age and our partners desires diminish it can allow us to open the door to other opportunities and experiences. The need for any type of intimacy or sexual contact with another man becomes less taboo and for those of us that had taken the plunge have come to realize that we've just found and experienced something very enjoyable that many years ago would have never thought of doing. It can actually open a door within us that had been closed for decades. It's now acceptable for us to walk through that door without a thought.

 

I divorced in 2003 and didn’t remarry until 2020. She’s older than me and has an amazing pussy. However over the last three years sex disappeared. During that time before this last marriage I had been getting with guys too. I enjoy sex with either now. She doesn’t know and will never know. I like full on sex with men just like with a woman; cuddling, kissing, sucking, fucking. Now I’m hard and have to get myself off! Phooey!

 

Does a couple months older count? Yes...more gay with desires...fantasize about being on my back sucking a cock...one in my ass...my balls tucked & being played with but not allowed to cum...(or to be in cock cage..still no cumming...just others cum !.

 

my first foray into sex as a teenager was with other boys. Mutual masturbating, giving each other hand jobs, giving each other blowjobs. Nothing too major and back in the 70's while you were seeing more and more people come out of the closet, it was still taboo for the most part. Then I got into girls and really enjoyed that. But when I got married that "bisexual" part kind of went into the closet and stayed there. I told my wife that I was bisexual but there was never any thought of going out of the marriage to meet up with other men or women. I am faithfully and happily married.

However, on the topic of feeling more gay as I get older, I think of it as one other stated. I don't see myself getting gayer, but more open to being acknowledging my bisexuality. Just not a practicing bisexual. Again, happily and faithfully married and plan to stay that way. But I think as we get older those thoughts that we suppressed when we were younger for various reasons just don't seem to matter as much when you get older. I am comfortable in who I am and how I feel. If the opportunity presented itself either by me surviving my wife (we are in our 60's) or her finally agreeing to do some threesomes (with women and/or men) I might finally get to act upon it.

I don't have a problem with saying that I have enjoyed eating pussy and I have enjoyed sucking cock. It's just been a long time since I have sucked a cock, and until my status changes, it will stay that way.