Men are easier …opportunities endless

How many men have you been with?

 

At 62, I've been with three women (two girlfriends of 3 years each, and a prostitute once), but hundreds of guys. If you put the effort in, you could certainly be with a lot of guys using gay online hookup sites and apps, but my far and wide the vast majority of guys I've been with came through gay sex venues like video arcades, straight and gay porn theaters, back rooms and patios of gay bars, bathhouses, gay sex clubs, and organized gay orgies. I was able to do that by living in large cities, including Toronto, Ottawa, San Francisco, and near Manhattan New York, and others I've visited like Los Angeles and Berlin. There are a hell of a lot of gay and bisexual men out there, and getting sex with them, oral and anal, as a single man anyway, is 1000 times easier than finding sex with women. And in my opinion, 1000 times more fun.

 

Amazing …,nice !!
I’m not there at 100s….
As I started this journey in my mid 20s now in my early thirties looking forward amazing times ahead ….

 

You know, quantity, it turns out, means almost nothing. What I'm really looking forward to is much more personal and intimate experiences with a group of individual guys on an ongoing basis, our being close friends together, doing lots of friendship kinds of things together, and really going all out passionately sucking and fucking each other, breeding each others assholes, passionately kissing, making powerful love together as only two gay men can do. Now that I've come out to myself as gay, with no interest in ever having sex with a woman again, and even very open to falling in love with a guy (I've for the first time developed romantic crushes on a couple different guys in the last two years), I can finally be completely free to live my truth. That's infinitely better to anonymously sucking hundreds of cocks in bathhouses etc. for decades.

 

I agree with you quality is better than quantity….
Not sure if you follow my recent updates of my turning point in my life …
One of my partners declared he was in love with me, it was hard for me to accept as I was still wanting to explore more mm’s ….I had deep feelings for him, but I wasn’t ready …
Few days ago I opened up …we are officially in gay relationship….we have committed once a week to be together and stay over at his place ….he is ok being open gay relationship long as he is gay primary partner ….I wasn’t ready lose this hunk..who super handsome sexy built Latino hunk with nice big cock…I was not only in love with him physically but intimately we l we’re connected so many ways…it made sense to develop this relationship…build our gay opportunities together …

As much I want more sexy men and their cocks , planning to have quality of opportunity with my lover added …

 

I'm so happy for you! That's exactly what life keeps throwing at us, shifting our path. I can understand that totally, kind of wanting more MM experiences, and then wham, you and a guy fall for each other. But I suppose that has an entirely different level of pleasure and joy, and an opportunity to grow in your gay side. Here you are in your first real gay relationship, and you're exploring it. Way to go!

So far that only exists in my imagination, but I feel I'm ever more ready for something like that, something like what you and @thepapasmurth are enjoying. The irony is that I too want a lot more sexual experiences with guys, especially involving intimate bareback fucking, to just sow my wild oats. Lol. Maybe life will also throw me a curve ball, and I won't get the quantity that I like to experience before settling down with one man. In my quest for lots of sex, I can see meeting a guy and we develop feelings for each other, putting a wrench into my intended promiscuity. But if it happens I think I will accept it, and go down that very special gay road I've been fantasizing about. Heck, all the bareback fucking that I want to engage in, as both a top and bottom (which I've yet to do, despite putting myself on PrEP 2.5 years ago!) is really just about closer connectedness with another guy, greater intimacy. So actually having love behind the sex will fulfil that need even more.

 

Thanks, i have lot to learn and navigate through this new change of acceptance of being in gay love ….at the same time being open gay relationships he supports.

I’m sure you will get the curve ball coming your way, be in the moment and there are so many chances for mm come up we don’t clue in or don’t give a chance take bold moves …

 

Since I started PrEP about 7 years ago around 1500 guys....maybe more if you include just bjs.....

and if I include since my first guy at age 19.....probably quite a few more....

Loved it all...Simon

 

Day by day I am learning…great things can come out if we give clues and pick up clues on opportunities….we will have more chances

there are situations…other person will share ways they may want mm

or there will be situations where you have to lead the initiative in sharing Clues …,at times being bold to make the move

luckily been on both sides….my main mission is to provide more clues and hints to open up more chances of mm….if you can’t do that …your limiting your chances

 

I've never had a gay sexual encounter but I want to so bad

 

I'm looking for a volunteer

 

I've been sucking cock for nearly sixty years, so...a lot.
And at the same time, not nearly enough.

 

Two for me, but chat with a few more.

 

9 guys
4 were mutual oral, 4 were just me blowing them and 1 was much older guy who said he couldn't get hard so he just blew me. 2 of them I've met up with several times, the most recent was a new guy was just tonight, I will be meeting up with him again, lives not too far from me.

 

Great