Men & Sex Over 60 Poll

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  1. James Ankar

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    A poll for Men 60+

    What age are you?
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced?
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi?
    Are you sexually active?

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex?
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why?
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger?
    Is sex less enjoyable now?

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate?
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate?
    Is masturbation important for you?
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]?
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult?
    Is orgasm more or less powerful?
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why?
    Do you use porn? What?
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know?
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now?
    Do you cum as easily?
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same?
    Which do you prefer?
     
  2. James Ankar

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    A poll for Men 60+
    My responses

    What age are you? 76
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent Less frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? My partner is less active
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Not really
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Not at all

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Many reasons - it is intensely enjoyable, it makes me feel good and positive about myself, because it has known health benefits
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes, it is natural and beneficial in many ways
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? I rarely masturbate to cum quickly preferring to get there slowly and savour the journey but achieving an intense orgasm is very important
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? As often as possible but at least twice a week - a recommended minimum for prostate health
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? More than when I was in my 50's - I am more frequently aroused and have more time/space
    Has your masturbation changed? How? It's more relaxed but I masturbate as always did
    Is it more or less enjoyable? Different rather than more or less enjoyable and in recent years my orgasms have been stronger
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? If I'm honest, arousal and erection is not as spontaneous but I always cum
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Ejaculation, inevitably, is not as profuse but orgasm can be more powerful than it was a decade ago
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? I would find talking about it difficult [though not to a doctor] but I feel very comfortable about it
    Do you use porn? What? Yes - vintage pinups and genuine videos of women masturbating
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes she knows, is happy that I do and reminds and encourages me to do so regularly both masturbating with her and when alone
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? No
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Ejaculation has weakened sadly
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Masturbate more but often together
    Which do you prefer? Both are equally important
     
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    What age are you? 61
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent More frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Have more time now. With a partner who enjoys sex.
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Yes can take more time and no work or kids to get in way.
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Has always been interested in sex
    Is sex less enjoyable now? No

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? I enjoy it
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? Both equally important
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? 2 or 3 times a week
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? More often
    Has your masturbation changed? Yes How? I can take more time and wife has no problem if she catches me.
    Is it more or less enjoyable? More
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Yes Is achieving orgasm more difficult? No but it can take more time.
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? No Why?
    Do you use porn? Yes What? I read erotica stories like on literotica
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Knows I watch/read porn but doesn't ask me about it.
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating? She has no problem with me masturbating.

    Erectile & other Issues some prostate issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? No
    Do you cum as easily? No
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Weakened
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Roughly the same
    Which do you prefer? Depends on my mood.
     
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    What age are you? 73
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent - Less frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Because I have to use women other than my spouse
    Has sex changed in later years? Yes If so, how and why? How is being non monogamous. Why is due to spouse no longer having sex.
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Not for me

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why? N/A
    Why do you masturbate? It feels good
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? The pleasure
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? At least weekly, usually more often
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? Less
    Has your masturbation changed? Yes How? I take more time to enjoy it.
    Is it more or less enjoyable? More
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Yes Is achieving orgasm more difficult? No
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Depends on how I react to the stimulation
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? No Why? N/A
    Do you use porn? Yes What? It's a great motivator.
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating? N/A

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Yes, it's changed as in stronger
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? I masturbate more than have sex
    Which do you prefer? Either or. I consider both as having sex and enjoy either the same.
     
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    What age are you? 73
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Bi
    Are you sexually active? Very much so

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes with wife or boyfriend separately
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent About the same
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Sex with wife is less but now having sex with my friend
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Wife is less interested
    Is sex less enjoyable now? A little bit with the wife but very enjoyable with my friend.

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Very seldom
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Either wife doesn't want to or friend not around
    Is masturbation important for you? Nope
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? A lot less
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable? About the same
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? Yes, no
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Usually less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? No
    Do you use porn? What? Sometimes, bisexuality mmf
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? Depends on the activity
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Again it depends on the activity
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? About the same Have sex more
    Which do you prefer? Having sex
     
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    What age are you? 78
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent Less
    If it is less or more frequent, why? I'm 78
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? No
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? No
    Is sex less enjoyable now? No

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? No
    If no, why? I'd rather fuck
    Why do you masturbate?
    Is masturbation important for you?
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]?
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult?
    Is orgasm more or less powerful?
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why?
    Do you use porn? What?
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know?
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Almost
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Orgasm more intense, less ejaculate
    Do you masturbate more than ha
     
  8. Tom Preston

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    A poll for Men 60+
    Hi, I have just joined Hip Forums and found my way here and thought this would be an interesting topic to start with.
    Here are my answers

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    I am a straight male, married, age 75, living in the UK and, YES, I am sexually active both with my partner and with myself

    2
    I do have sex with my partner but no where near as often as we did up until about ten years ago for a combination of reasons and my wife is less interested than I am, sadly but sex (all forms) is no less enjoyable than in my younger days. By contrast, since I have retired I masturbate more than I did when I was in my 60's. in addition to frequency, sex has changed to a lot more shared masturbation.Sex

    3
    Of course I masturbate. I learned early in life that, contrary to my youthful misunderstanding, masturbation does not diminish because you are in a permanent sexual relationship nor is it a threat to it. Let's face it, I have been masturbating for more than 60 years, it is highly pleasurable and invigorating and it is sex at which I am highly experienced. Masturbation keeps me sexually active, it de-stresses, in makes me feel empowered and alive and has many health (physical and mental) benefits.For those reasons, it is very important and given how long it has been a part of my adult life I feel that if it were to diminish it would be a great loss to my self-esteem and health.For me,the enjoyment of prolonged touch and the eventual ejaculation as two distinct aspects of sex with myself. Masturbation varies with a number of things, mood,time available and how my body is feeling and reacting. Sometimes enjoying arousal and touch is more important than at other times when I am anxious to cum or do not have a lot of time. I aim to masturbate at least 3 times a week for prostate health but usually do so anything from 2 - 5 times if I can. No on my age masturbates as frequently and as prodigiously than in their youth but, as said, I masturbate more now than I did ten years ago and I think it is possibly more enjoyable, certainly orgasm is more intense.I am very pleased and grateful to be able to say that I always cum. Many years ago I did feel guilty, I come from that era. Certainly, I never let my first wife know I masturbated and she would not have approved but my wife now is far more grounded and open minded. I often use soft porn, largely amateur.. Yes my partner knows I masturbate and is cool with it, I consider myself very lucky.

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    Sadly, and inevitably, I do not get aroused as easily as I once did. I notice guys here claim a spectacular level of frequency and orgasmic potency which I am sure is untrue. Once started I always cum. Again, no on my age cums as vigorously or in as much volume as when they were younger but over the last few years orgasm has changed and intensified.Sadly I masturbate more than I have sex but I have no preference. Both are sex and fabulous.

    This has been a fun way to start posting on these forums.
     
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  10. WelikeExcitement

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    A poll for Men 60+

    What age are you? 60
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married 38 years
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Absolutely

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent More frequent No family living at home. Just me the wife and our cat.
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? More experimental. More oral Toys are involved now.
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? More so as she knows what she wants when she wants it.
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Hell no, Much better.

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? I have a high sex drive. Gives the wife some recovery time. She also says it is good for my health. Use it or loose it.
    Is masturbation important for you? Absolutely
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? I Edge a lot through the week.
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? Edge daily Cum daily
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? Probably same
    Has your masturbation changed? How? Toys, cock rings, different risky locations to keep it thrilling
    Is it more or less enjoyable? More
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? Edge alot and cum when I cant take it any further.
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Powerfull with edging
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? Not when my wife sanctioned it. (Good for my Health)
    Do you use porn? What? Sometimes. Stories and various genres
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? No I have beter control
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Depends on how much masturbating I have done.
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Probably more masturbating.
    Which do you prefer? I don't have to choose, so why would I.
     
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    What age are you?
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced?
    Divorced

    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi?
    I don't Identify by your standards

    Are you sexually active?
    Very

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex?
    Partners, yes.

    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Less frequent because I have more "Life" stuff to plan around.

    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why?
    I am more interested in my pleasure.

    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger?
    No. I date younger women with good sex drives.

    Is sex less enjoyable now?
    How could sex be unenjoyable?

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate?
    Absolutely. Probably once a day.

    If no, why?

    Why do you masturbate?
    Because it feels good.

    Is masturbation important for you?
    Well yeah. I'm hypersexual so it is very important.

    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch?
    Probably nutting is most important.

    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Once a day on average.

    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]?
    I could go a couple times a day when I was a teen...still can.

    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Hasn't

    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Same

    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult?
    Sometimes it is difficult to orgasm and if I try to hard I get a terrible headache right before busting a nut. Not real enjoyable.

    Is orgasm more or less powerful?
    Probably more power but my cum doesn't fly as far as it used to.

    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why?
    No. Why should I?

    Do you use porn? What?
    Absolutely. It changes from month to year to year.

    If married/in a relationship does your partner know?
    My wife knew I masturbated. Often times I was masturbating onto her body or face.

    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?
    She liked it. It got her juices flowing.

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now?
    Mentally? Yes. However, the hardware needs a little longer to warm up.

    Do you cum as easily?
    No. I have had issues with retarded ejaculation that has a few women put out because it would take me 3-4 hours to cum.

    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened
    Intensity is good as it ever was. It doesn't shoot as far or as much but it still feels good.

    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same?
    When I was married we'd have sex twice a week and I might jerk it three times a week. I on a similar schedule these days.

    Which do you prefer?
    I enjoy them both. They are different. I think when you get to the point of knowing you've got endless pussy in front of you...the pressure wears off and you can enjoy both. Masturbation isn't a substitute for sex. It is a means to ejaculate and relieve that pressure. With sex you have another human being submitting to your desires. They are not the same.
     
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    What age are you? 66
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? in a relationship
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Bi
    Are you sexually active? sort of

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent less frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? low T, ED, disinterest of partner
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? see above
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? yes

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? use it or lose it
    Is masturbation important for you? yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? I rarely cum
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? once or twice a week
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? less
    Has your masturbation changed? How? see above
    Is it more or less enjoyable? less
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? No. Yes.
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? no
    Do you use porn? What? yes
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? no
    Do you cum as easily? no
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened weakened
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? masturbate
    Which do you prefer? I take what I can get
     
  13. iamjustme

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    A poll for Men 60+
    What age are you? - 60
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? - married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? - straight 75%ish
    Are you sexually active? - not often at all, wife is 5 years post menopause - she has no drive whatsoever

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? - answered above
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent - a lot less
    If it is less or more frequent, why?
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? - answered above
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? - you know most of these question are the same question
    Is sex less enjoyable now?
    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? - absolutely
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? - because we are sexual creatures
    Is masturbation important for you? - as much as anyone else I suppose, more so now with less sex
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? the full body experience, cumming is the crescendo not the goal
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? - 2-3 times a week
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? - less, as I was having sex way-way more
    Has your masturbation changed? How? - yes, it use to be what I did when I wasn't having sex, a means to ejaculate mostly. Now it is usually nude and more self pleasure than just jerking off.
    Is it more or less enjoyable? far more
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? - always, not really
    Is orgasm more or less powerful?
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why?
    Do you use porn? - very-very little, less than once a month. Doesn't do much for me, I want connections with real people
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? - Know I masturbate?, well yeah. Who wouldn't know?
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? - maybe even more
    Do you cum as easily? - No, not during sex. It can be difficult. In masturbation it always does.
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened - the stream is weakened, unless really turned on, more oozes out than squirt to my chest
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? masturbate 3-4 times more than sex
    Which do you prefer? - I would rather have sex, but it is what it is
     
  14. Si69

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    What age are you? 74
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Divorced
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Bi...more gay
    Are you sexually active? Very

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex?Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent more frequently
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Thanks to PrEP
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? More random meets
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? N/A
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Not at all... different

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Rarely now
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Lack of meets
    Is masturbation important for you? Not so much
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? Self & other touch
    If yes, how often do you masturbate?
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? Much less
    Has your masturbation changed? How?
    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Yes
    Is achieving orgasm more difficult?
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Yes
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? No
    Do you use porn? Yes my own
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating? No problem

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? No
    Do you cum as easily? No
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Yes
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, no have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Heaps more
    Which do you prefer? SEX
     
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    What age are you? 62
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Single all my life (with a girlfriend twice, from 27-30 and 54-57)
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Bi 30-57, Gay ever since
    Are you sexually active? Yes, but nowhere near enough.

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes, but multiple serial partners (i.e. not relationship sex since breaking up with my last girlfriend in 2019). ...Ohhhh, you meant do I have long-term relationship partner sex: you should've been more specific.
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent Same as always, too infrequent (heck, I lost my virginity at 27 with girlfriend#1)
    If it is less or more frequent, why? n/a
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? The older I've gotten, the more I've enjoyed sex with other men, and now love everything about a man and everything about homosexuality.
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? n/a
    Is sex less enjoyable now? Overall it's not been and is just not going to be very enjoyable I think until I have more steady gay friends-with-benefits or a boyfriend, i.e. gay relationship sex like I've always been meant for, i.e. women have just been the wrong gender and casual sex with men is not that super enjoyable. Making passionate love with a man, that's for me.

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why? n/a
    Why do you masturbate? I don't have one or more steady (at least biweekly) sexual partner(s).
    Is masturbation important for you? Unfortunately, too important
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? It's the pleasure of stroking and even edging and the immense enjoyment of gay porn and writing/posting while doing so that is most important, culminating in a beautiful cum blasting orgasm if I don't run out of time.
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? 1-4 times a week
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? As often as whenever I've been single (after my bisexual awakening at 30; I'm now 62), and much much much more than 18-30 before my gay desires exploded into my consciousness.
    Has your masturbation changed? How? Other than a period of constant purposeful denying orgasm during my edging to gay porn and writing/postings for a couple of years (often 12, 18, 24 an even 36 hour straight edging sessions with a near constant flow of pre-cum), my masturbation sessions have become the longest the last year or two because it's being harder to keep a steady erection and to reach orgasm (overworked cock obviously with so much gay porn addiction masturbation over a period of 30 years, plus medication effects).
    Is it more or less enjoyable? Less
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? No Is achieving orgasm more difficult? Yes
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? Usually less
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? No Why? Because my enjoyment of gay porn and writing/posting is almost my only pleasure in life.
    Do you use porn? What? I always masturbate to a mixture of gay porn and writing/posting to sexual parts of forums like this, talking about my gay experiences and fantasies.
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? I'm single now, but when I was in my second (also last) relationship, I only masturbated back at home after bringing her to multiple orgasms at her house without reaching my own, and she knew I had to do this to avoid blue balls. I also masturbated to gay porn like crazy during our many breaks (initiated by her), and, even though she knew about my bisexuality before we first hooked up, she'd get mad that I had done this (she always dragged the truth out of me), even though it was okay for her to fuck other guys during our breaks (which she always told me about). And in the last few months of our 3-year relationship when she wanted us to just be friends with benefits so that she can fuck other guys, I often masturbated to gay porn.
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating?

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? No, and I hate that I keep losing my erection while masturbating and even having sex the last couple of years.
    Do you cum as easily? No
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Weakened, but not always
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Way way way more masturbation than sex, goddammit!
    Which do you prefer? Sex, dahhh!
     
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    Well, that is a lot to remember but my story. i m 84 now and enjoyed my self several times last night and for an hour this morning. sometimes i have to recover to let it build but it is enjoyable. Masturbation for me gives me vitality and does seam to help me. I was about 4 when my grandmother caught me really rocking up a storm in a platform rocker. I was the only kid so i probably had more time to enjoy me than most. When boy cousins get together we would play with each other and until you are old enough to cum, you get real dizy and we would laugh at each other as we staggered and feel down. I thought i should have a nice toy for a girl someday so i squeezed, pulled and stretched a lot. Since i was Hyper sexiness i wanted a girl that really enjoyed fucking, and i ended up with a Nymphomaniac. We fucked all the time day and night and in bed most of the weekends. But i had to make a living also and could see that i may have more than i can handle. I was gone a lot which made opportunities for her to easy Cheat. i was on the road for days sometimes with plenty of oppertunity but i Never Cheated.I could reduce the extreme desire without the risk of VD and without having to pay for it. I had my way of relief when i needed and able to get my mind back on work. I know a lot of truckers like me. She was an excellent mother and housekeeper. I got a fun and always loving girl who was always a real joy and kept me very well satisfied when home. unlike what many end up with and i feet fortunate. However she had a second life the she thought was a secret but people told me every time. She had a compulsive sex disorder of sex addiction and found that she was part of a Swingers Club where they are regularly tested for VD and some rules of conduct; I found that she would brag on me to people there and she would slyly try to convince me to join her. "You deserve to cheat. I know some girls who would really like to sleep with you and i think you should" She thought i was missing out on the fun i guess? She never left me or it would ll be over and I never gave up on her probably because i could understand. I kept my family together and we both were there to raise them and they think we are the best Mon and Dad ever. She was severely disabled for the last 15 years and i cared for her 24/7. I lost her a year and a half ago after 63 years. Sometimes masturbation brings back the good memories we has together.
     
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    What age are you? 63
    Are you - Married, Single, In a relationship, Widowed, Divorced? Married
    Are you - Straight, Gay, Bi? Straight
    Are you sexually active? Yes

    Sex
    Do you have partner sex? Yes
    If yes, is it as frequent as when you were younger, less frequent, more frequent
    If it is less or more frequent, why? Less
    Has sex changed in later years? If so, how and why? Not much
    Is your partner less interested in sex than when you were younger? Yes
    Is sex less enjoyable now? No

    Masturbation
    Do you masturbate? Yes
    If no, why?
    Why do you masturbate? Gives me a lot of pleasure
    Is masturbation important for you? Yes
    Which is more important - cumming as quickly as possible or the pleasure of self touch? Self touch
    If yes, how often do you masturbate? Couple times a week
    Do you masturbate more, less or as often as when younger [not when a youth]? About the same
    Has your masturbation changed? How? Yes. I edge a lot longer now
    Is it more or less enjoyable?
    Do you always orgasm [Cum]? Is achieving orgasm more difficult? Always orgasm
    Is orgasm more or less powerful? About the same
    Do you feel guilty for masturbating? Why? Nope
    Do you use porn? What? Yes. Women wrestling
    If married/in a relationship does your partner know? Yes
    If not, what would she/he feel about you masturbating? She is fine with it

    Erectile & other Issues
    Do you become aroused as easily now? Yes
    Do you cum as easily? Yes
    Has the intensity of orgasm and ejaculation changed or weakened Weakened a little
    Do you masturbate more than have sex, have sex more than you masturbate or roughly the same? Masturbate more
    Which do you prefer? Masturbation
     
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    Honestly, that is one thing that has really improved with age...
     
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