Before I had my heart event, the doctors said it was not a heart attack but something definitely happened and they gave me some meds, I a rarely remembered one or two dreams a week. Now I remember 6 or 7 dreams a night and some occur within 15 minutes of me falling asleep. They are very vivid. I would guess about 10 % of them involve sex. Most are about involve my wife one way or another. Some are about a male friend. I am bisexual. With almost all of them I wake up with a hard on. My wife usually gets the benefit.
I was assigned male at birth and still have male anatomy and I have always had wet dreams more than most. In my teens they were almost every night. Sometimes 2 or 3 in a single night. By my late 20s, it was just a few a month. It was good as far as forcing me to be less ashamed about that kind of sex/body stuff in front of others. I'm 42 and still have them regularly. Had one a couple nights ago.
I usually have them while trying to sleep, like in and out of sleep - it torments me because I live alone, and I couldn't be bothered to masturbate because I am usually too tired. But they are very vivid and very real, usually about the same person. Been happening for a while now. I remember them being more powerful when I was much younger, like barely a teenager.
My dreams are similar....they are sereal. Sometimes, I wake up in a sweat like I have been going at it for a long time. Many times, I need to masterbate. This happens even if I am too tired. Afterwards, I fall into a deeper sleep. Sadly, I also have PTSD from war and those are even more vivid. Fortunately, the VA has worked with me and those are less troublesome. Sorry I drifted off topic Peace and love
curious, when you say they are usually about the same person…, has that been the same Person since you were much younger? It sounds like there was a very lasting impression that you continue to recall or possibly fantasize about - or maybe your mind takes further in your dreams. Care to share a little insight into where that takes you? Would love to hear how it plays out it you are comfortable sharing.
It's different than what it was like when I was younger. These days its the same person that I am in love with. He haunts my mind and my heart all day and it carries me into the night - it's tormentuous really but still very vivid.
My sex dream is always the same i have been. Following bonnie blue for a while now and being in a room with all those men ( if you don't no get to no ) we'll I wake up dripping
I very seldom get sex dreams my most recent one was the wife spanking my bare ass and the neighbor lady rings the door bell. Wife say says come in it’s unlocked, Then I woke up.
The reality of combat isn't the same as portrayed in Hollywood. People see the medals but only see the physical scares and cannot relate to or see the mental scares that can effect some for the rest off their lives. If people say they are not scared of anything they are just stupid and dangerous. Being a good soldier is the ability to confront and unutilized the fear, aggression, and adrenaline, to your advantage which is a skill in itself. War surves no purpose apart from making politicians RICH and more powerful for their own ends. And not the people and families involved and caught up in it.
