For bi men whose wife is still "in the dark".......

KD23:

Another excellent, in-depth "commentary".....good work, as always!

 

Personally, I believe that the term "juggling act" well describes the bisexual married man whose wife is "still in the dark" regarding his having sex with other men............

 

It can be a juggling act but for the guy who has his shit properly locked down and in order, there's no juggling - it's just another day in his life. You know that since she is almost guaranteed not to approve of this, then she cannot ever know even though, in my own observations, some wives figure it out and... they don't say anything about it because homey is 100% taking care of his obligations as a husband and father (if applicable). He's not doing it with another woman and if they're still having sex, well, he knows that he'd better be able to give it to her good when she wants it - and any slacking on his part could arouse suspicions provided she hasn't figured it out yet. True enough, some wives never find out because the husband never gives her a reason to question anything about him; you cannot - and you better not - assume that women are that stupid and clueless.