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Your issue with getting excessively aroused could be a factor, but your mind issues seem to be even bigger. When I am with a guy I trust, I don't care about what society may think. All of my male lovers have been discrete. Anything we do remains our personal business.

I know gay men who I really respect. Being gay has no negative connotation to me. Also, I have no concerns about religious taboos.

So I end up being pan-sexual, meaning that I don't care where a lover might be on the gender spectrum. If I trust a person and like them, that's all that matters to me. As I get older, I'm no longer interested in anonymous sex.

I hope you find a path that fits your needs.

 

If you're sitting back and waiting for the world to change and be more accepting of male bisexuality, I'd suggest you not hold your breath on this one and if you want to jump in the pool, take your clothes off and jump on in - and like bisexual men have been doing all along. For as long as I can remember, there have always been guys who are of a mind that if they don't cum in a guy anywhere, then it's not gay and with the key issue of being gay as the great moral evil. To the guys who have said this to me and as an excuse for why they couldn't cum or they chickened out and jerked off instead, I've asked them to think about getting out of their own head about this and understand that if a guy is giving you a blowjob, he wants you to cum and, usually and preferably, in his mouth (or his ass if that's the case). Society's acceptance or continued disapproval doesn't mean jack shit - but doing something that you should and want to enjoy to the fullest means everything.

Look, I definitely want (and get) women, too; nothing - and I do mean nothing - is better than pussy. Having said that, trading blowjobs with a guy or we're fucking each other also works and men have been doing this to each other for as long as societies and religion has prohibited it. As far as I can tell, there are more men today than at any other time I can remember who are embracing their bisexuality and maybe even realizing that they're more homosexual and either way, this is a good thing because men are not willing to keep sitting on the sidelines waiting for society to get its head out of its collective ass.

If nothing else, it's just another way to have sex and who isn't wired to have sex?

 

I would be happy to suck a cock to pleasure a guy...hard or soft..able to cum or not. With my meds at times I either don't get hard or go soft instantly when I stop stroking. At times not being able to get hard is a turn on..at times fantasize about having my balls removed..A cup titties a soft cock
..sucking guys and having guys fuck me...
So bring the soft cocks and hard and in between especially if uncut!

 

Sooooo if we got together and I couldn't get or stay hard...but I sucked your cock...fuck me if you want..cum where you want..my mouth or ass...but I stay soft...would you be ok with that? Would you want to try to make me cum? Or just enjoy your orgasm and maybe want another?

 

absolutely! I sucked (and fingered)an older man (80yo), he couldn’t get hard, didn’t cum but had an incredible orgasm. I have to say I was surprised but he could really suck a cock. He was able to get me to cum twice in one session which is a rarity these days.

 

That happened to me once. A guy wanted to suck my cock. I agreed, but couldn't get erect. The mood or the timing wasn't quite right. I apologized, but he told me not to worry and sucked my cock anyways. I stayed flaccid up to the point where I was getting ready to cum. My cock started filling with blood, but never reached being fully erect. I managed to get about half hard by the time I started cumming!!!

 

I was at an event where it was oral play. There were about 15 guys in in a dimly lit room. I was watching the action. A guy was fascinated with my uncut cock. He was sucking on it for a long time. I could not get hard but eventually came. I thought that going to the event would turn me on but it didn’t. I realized that the fantasy is better than reality.

 

Maybe it was the venue, or it could be like you said

 

I've been in situations where either myself or the guy I'm sucking on fails to get fully hard. It was still enjoyable to be sucked on or to be sucking on his semi hard cock. While attending gatherings with 4-5 other guys it can be difficult to stay hard for each mouth wanting to suck your cock, none of us were disappointed as we were all just horny and wanted to be sucking dick for the few hours, we were all naked together. I enjoy being naked with 4-5 other guys as we orally pleasure each other. Whether I get fully erect or not I can see he is enjoying himself sucking on my semi hard cock and I have always shared the very same enthusiasm myself. It doesn't matter as we all get to suck on each other while being flaccid, semi hard, or raging hard. We'd gotten together to suck dick and each of us shot 2-3 loads out during our time together so we're all leaving very satisfied.

 

I like having a soft or flaccid cock in my mouth, I find the reason most straight guys can’t get hard is because they are nervous or anxious at being outed as bi, I always reassure them of my integrity and discretion, telling them how lovely their penis is, the size, the shape, the scent, the taste, I kiss it and lick it, gently suck it and invariably it starts to swell and harden in my mouth, gently stroking a mans thighs or his stomach while I suck his penis seems to send a message that its perfectly natural to allow a man to give you pleasure with his mouth. I have been told on several occasions that I do it better than any woman lol