Hi all. So basically my wife and I are new to this page. We are looking for new ideas to make things interesting/ spicy and would like to try new stuff. Can you guys share some interesting BDSM ideas or even from your experiences which we can try? (Any ideas are welcome) thanks in advance
My fwb and I had a bag full of toys. One day I gave her an egg timer. She looked surprised as I said this for an erotic afternoon. I payed all our toys out. Tied her spread eagle to the bed. And blind folded her. And asked for a number. It was only used till the sand ran out then she had to pick another. After 6 or 7 pics. She was beginning to come.
Participants can do flogging, spanking, whipping and caning, or bondage to maintain control over the sub as part of their D/S activities. A perceived naughty girl can be laid over the lap and spanked enough to turn the ass red. He can be tied to a bed, post, or countertop, and flogged because he was late for something. Flogging the cock and balls is a big turn on for a lot of men. Adding a dog collar and leash is a way to control the sub. Making the eat Sub and drink from bowls, no hands, can be part of the activity. Toss in foot worship or shoe worship while collared. Of course there's always demeaning comments tossed about by the Dom. There's quite a lot of variety in the activities that can be had. Just explore what might turn each of you on and go with it.
We were never into BDSM. A few times we did light bondage where someone was tied down and blindfolded several people pleased them orally, and they had to try to guess who it was. It did go a bit farther a few times and no one minded even intercourse with a stranger.
Ideas? Well, first to ask her what is it that has been a kink she would like to try. Always respect the approach! Start light with blind folds and feathering and if accepted, soft padded hand cuffs. ;-)
