Losing desire to masturbate? Who me?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by Keedge, Sep 17, 2025.

  1. Keedge

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    I have seen posts from guys who say that they have lost their desire to masturbate. It's usually from someone older like myself (in my early 60s). I read those and think... "man that would suck I still wank regularly".

    Well, I think it is happening to me. Over the last 2 weeks or so I have just not felt the urge. Which is really weird to adjust to. I will go to bed, and start, but quickly just stop. The urge just isn't there.

    I have heard people reply that it could be Low-T, or stress. For me it could be stress, as it has been brutal this year at work. And with only 2 or so years to go before retiring, the desire to do the work is lessening.

    But again, it is really weird to be in a spot where there is just no desire to masturbate. Maybe it will subside.
     
  2. WelikeExcitement

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    I found avenues to keep my mind thinking sexual thoughts. I started wearing Gstrings and thongs. I also started collecting and wearing metal cock rings. This has expanded into ball rings, glans rings, and cock and ball rings. I wear them daily. Thoughts go to my cock all day long. The erotic thing is no one I work with knows. Just my thoughts, but it definitely works for me.
     
  3. LowHangers

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    I haven't lost the desire to masturbate but now in my early 60's I need something in my ass to really enjoy it and get to the finish line. When I exit the shower in the morning, I insert a "butt-plug" and leave it in there for a few hours before getting down to business.
     
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  4. WelikeExcitement

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    I added in some Whereby video sessions. Men are visual definitely, as this is an experience I am enjoying. Large group and some stroking.
     
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  5. JoCose64

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    I am in my early sixties and still masturbate every day. That probably seems like a lot, but it is also far less than the chronic masturbation of my younger years. In my teens, every private moment was devoted to masturbation. I would jack off three to five times a day; even in my twenties I was still indulging in a daily habit. Even during sexual relationships, I would still masturbate, though perhaps less frequently than in single times. I guess it stands to reason that each individual has their own individual life's path.
     
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  6. Jumper58

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    I don’t necessarily masturbate every day, but after I shave my cock and balls I will definitely masturbate. It looks and feels great and I can’t resist the urge
     
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