How long?

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  1. Scharff

    Scharff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I know we've talked about this before but how long does just a blowjob take? My FWB usually takes about 10 minutes before I have to release in her. But she says on the mornings her boyfriend doesn't get to fuck her, she does him in no more than two minutes. From putting it in her mouth to swallowing. She says that those morning sucks are just to make him happy and not for her to enjoy but when she takes her time, she enjoys it more. What do you all say?
     
  2. Jumper58

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    To tell you the truth, if it’s a really good BJ I will cum pretty quick
     
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  3. Twogigahz

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    It takes as long as she will let me enjoy it, usually....that's probably ten minutes. I have gotten the "well, ok, but you only have three minutes...and that's it !! ".... and made it to the finish line in time... I rarely want to hurry, but at two minutes ... I could be in the zone....
     
  4. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    I’ve given a whole lot of them and there are just so many variables involved…and usually I can speed it up or slow it down to get the timing right…but usually 5-10 minutes might be average.
     
  5. Jumper58

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    Lmao, young lady I am sure I would not last that long, but I would definitely kiss you and share with you
     
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  6. Windman

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    It’s varies, if the bj is really good and I’m really wound up I’ll cum in 5 minutes. Other times it can be 1/2 hour or more. Guys that I have sucked I generally can make them cum in 10 minutes at most. I’ve had guys cum in two minutes.
     
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  7. Bazz888

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    I've experienced three who, afterwards, (BJs) said they thought
    a) they weren't good enough and I wasn't going to cum
    b) they weren't able to find my 'buttons' and get me there
    c) that I took so long that I wasn't going to cum.

    As time went on and more occasions happened, they realised I was a slow burner.
    Anywhere from 10 to 20 mins. Heck even on my own it's way more than 5 mins when I'm just going for orgasm rather than edging and in fucking, its about ten mins in a quickie. (Even after she's used my cock to get herself off)

    Just let it happen when it happens.
     
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  8. LowHangers

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    I've had blowjobs from both men and women, and it usually takes me about 15-20 minutes to cum on average. I've also blown my load in five minutes if the technique is superior. I do prefer getting/giving drawn out blowjobs lasting around 30 minutes if time permits. Quickies get the job done, but taking your time builds up a better orgasm for sure.
     
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  9. Lovnflman

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    I agree. I have been in situations with women that were gung-ho, but had absolutely no technique. Frustrating for both of us! Thankfully my current wife was both enthusiastic and good. if for some reason I took a while, she would just back off and say “you do it”. so I did!
    Good times!
     
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  10. LowHangers

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    The enthusiasm is what gets you to the finish line. My first wife offered a blowjob when she had her period but provided no enthusiasm and wondered why I hadn't cum after 30 minutes. My present wife never had a problem getting me to cum within 10 minutes because she was always enthusiastic about sucking my cock.
     
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  11. Cmlovr

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    A few minutes giving. Guys don't last very long with my bj style. As for myself, instantly to a minute or so.
     
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  12. Tonynewyork6969

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    My wife the college blowjob queen can do the job quickly or slowly depending on the person and situation. Sometimes she will blow me while we are watching tv in the evening as she absolutely loves it. Other times it can be fast in the kitchen or anywhere else she is a pro for the situation. My fb divorced and bi incorporates it into our lovemaking and is also fantastic My fwb also like my fb has been with countless partners but considers it more intimate than fucking so although she gives pornstyle blows she has only done a few guys and I’m fortunate to be one of them. They all enjoy tasting and swallowing cum. Some of my other partners who are in their 30s and up enjoy the act but many stroke my cock while sucking. You see that in the movies which I equate to kinda a handjob combination. Also enjoyable. I would say they all last between 5 to 10 minutes but my wife fwb and fb all can go up to 30 - 45 minutes depending on the scene
     
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  13. straightma1e

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    BJ's are just a step along the way to fucking a good pussy. Never cum from one. So it's all about how long she wants to suck the cock before having it put in her pussy.
     
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  14. bbw-lover71

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    I have never timed one, just too busy enjoying a good cock sucking
     
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